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No social life

I only have two close friends. One doesn't feel the need to socialise regularly and instead wants to focus on schoolwork. I've tried to persuade her to go out with me to the cinema, out for lunch or hot chocolate, shopping, a walk etc but she always says she doesn't have time. My other friend is always busy with volunteering and music lessons and family and she's told me she's busy so many times that I'm afraid to ask her to do something with me again. I'm really lonely and it hurts when I hear that other people at college go out every weekend when I stay at home with my family. I don't know what to do

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Original post by Anonymous
I only have two close friends. One doesn't feel the need to socialise regularly and instead wants to focus on schoolwork. I've tried to persuade her to go out with me to the cinema, out for lunch or hot chocolate, shopping, a walk etc but she always says she doesn't have time. My other friend is always busy with volunteering and music lessons and family and she's told me she's busy so many times that I'm afraid to ask her to do something with me again. I'm really lonely and it hurts when I hear that other people at college go out every weekend when I stay at home with my family. I don't know what to do


Lets get this straight, its hard to have a social life if you dont have a job or any money. So yeah.
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Original post by ripjonsnow
Lets get this straight, its hard to have a social life if you dont have a job or any money. So yeah.


this
Reply 3
Yes, focus first at work. If you can stand independently then its time to create a good social life.
get a boyfriend wtf
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
I only have two close friends. One doesn't feel the need to socialise regularly and instead wants to focus on schoolwork. I've tried to persuade her to go out with me to the cinema, out for lunch or hot chocolate, shopping, a walk etc but she always says she doesn't have time. My other friend is always busy with volunteering and music lessons and family and she's told me she's busy so many times that I'm afraid to ask her to do something with me again. I'm really lonely and it hurts when I hear that other people at college go out every weekend when I stay at home with my family. I don't know what to do


I don't even have one friend, :frown:
Original post by _Xenon_
I don't even have one friend, :frown:


Buddy, Im your friend, I even wrote you a poem :smile:
Reply 7
Original post by ripjonsnow
Buddy, Im your friend, I even wrote you a poem :smile:


Thanks! :h:
Reply 8
How can I make more friends though? Everyone at college already has their own friendship groups.
Original post by Anonymous
I only have two close friends. One doesn't feel the need to socialise regularly and instead wants to focus on schoolwork. I've tried to persuade her to go out with me to the cinema, out for lunch or hot chocolate, shopping, a walk etc but she always says she doesn't have time. My other friend is always busy with volunteering and music lessons and family and she's told me she's busy so many times that I'm afraid to ask her to do something with me again. I'm really lonely and it hurts when I hear that other people at college go out every weekend when I stay at home with my family. I don't know what to do


This is me as well, just concentrate on yourself for a while and doing something you enjoy. If they care about you then they'll make time to meet. I'd rather stay at home with my family anyway because they are everything to me


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Join clubs, societies, gym, anything out of interesting.

Be charming, read books around social skills, conversation skills and start by asking strangers questions, about anything, the weather, how was their weekend, did they see that movies or the sport match, their opinions.

Good luck with everything!
Original post by rhiifuu
this


Or this?
How bout fcuk studys and become a rapper ,,,, Jeez
No but seriously i have no friends aswell :frown: i can be your friend
Original post by urbanlocations
Or this?


Or that?
Or Cats:biggrin:
Whos heard Drake One dance its a banger x)
Original post by Anonymous
I only have two close friends. One doesn't feel the need to socialise regularly and instead wants to focus on schoolwork. I've tried to persuade her to go out with me to the cinema, out for lunch or hot chocolate, shopping, a walk etc but she always says she doesn't have time. My other friend is always busy with volunteering and music lessons and family and she's told me she's busy so many times that I'm afraid to ask her to do something with me again. I'm really lonely and it hurts when I hear that other people at college go out every weekend when I stay at home with my family. I don't know what to do


At least you have 2 friends or can make friends i keep pushing everyone away so i'm lonely as hell and i hate people so yeah :biggrin:
Reply 18
Original post by rhiifuu
Or that?


that again?
Original post by F Edexcel
Whos heard Drake One dance its a banger x)


I have, it's such a good song!


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