Am I bi-sexual?

Yea, that's somtimes an issue, although in my experiance gay jokes are thrown about a lot as a cheep way to get laughs, but it doesn't immediatly indacte someone as a die hard homophobic and more often than not when you do come out to someone the jokes and derogitory terms are halted with immediate effect.

However Im studying at a collage with a large diversity and basically hang out in the gayest corner of our collage (Yes we actually put up our own flag:
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So my observations may be a bit biased

I'd say a fair few people who go to clubs (not all) regardless of if they're straight or gay have the intention of receiving pleasure whenever they do go. I think if you do go to a gay club, people there would appreciate honesty because at one point they had to come out. Maybe just be straight up and tell them you're trying to find you're sexuality...and they may want to help you discover it. Don't go further than what you're comfortable with, make sure the person knows that you're experimenting and always make sure you're seeking/giving consent.

Hope this helps OP

Thank for your help, you've really made me more comfortable about the situation, I'm just worried about being taken advantage of considering I'm only 5ft 1

you're a boy-sexual

I know I still like girls (slept with approx. 200) but it felt too good. Can you help me? Is this a phase? Will it pass?

Do you think they will let me experiment (hand jobs) with them?

I know I still like girls (slept with approx. 200) but it felt too good. Can you help me? Is this a phase? Will it pass? Or am I bi-sexual?

Approx. yeah, I've had chlamydia 4 times now :2euk48l:

I'm not turned on by gay porn but his grip was more pleasurable than a female to me

The collage I'm at is incredibly hostile to gay people, I can't go anywhere without fear of being called a sissy little faggot bitch or something to that effect

I wouldn't say it appeals per se but I jerk off to it all the time

I think gay people are some of the most understanding and friendly people you'll ever meet. They're not ones to judge. Just remember, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. If at any point you feel uncomfortable, leave.

So you're in college, but you've slept with 200 girls and had chlamydia 4 times?, and you're not turned on by gay porn but jerk off to it all the time? You trolling bro?

No, because there's no hyphen in 'bisexual'.

Ahem.



Your genitals will never know nor care about the gender of the person doing nice things to them. You mind obviously does...

... does it see a problem?



Pick the right bar / club, and yes, there will be a sex on the premises space where more than that happens.

I said approx. 200

Thank for your help, you've really made me more comfortable about the situation, I'm just worried about being taken advantage of considering I'm only 5ft 1

Still doesn't make it anymore believable...

The collage I'm at is incredibly hostile to gay people, I can't go anywhere without fear of being called a sissy little faggot bitch or something to that effect

What if somebody wants to something with anus/butthole?

5 foot 1 and you've slept with 200 girls?
If you're not a troll then fair play fella.

You say 'no'...

... unless you want to say 'yes'.

Damn, I remember when I used to be at a christian secondary school, and yeah that definitely wasn't a fun experience. Are you planning on going to university? If so, join up to the LGBT society (yes believe it or not you don't have to be gay to join a LGBT society) and then you'll get a chance to feel free to discuss things openly with people and not feel boxed in. Our society at collage meets every week, and we have a room where we just chill out over lunch as big group. Its great fun and you can be as involved as you like.

In reference to a person that was talking about people being open and willing to help people experiment in clubs and stuff. I would personally say that yeah, its definitely an option, but be careful with how the wording is done.

Obviously Ice break a bit, get to know the person your talking to and let them get to know you a bit and then mention that your unsure of your sexuality and then lead onto experimentation. Being subtle is important, because if someone walked up-to me and said, "Hey im straight but want to try it" Id defiantly back away from the whole situation. So yeah, as they said Honesty is key. I wouldn't want to find out a week later that the guy was just using me as a strip of litmus paper, but if someone was upfront about it, then sure id be more inclined to go with it.

Hi there, this a very sensitive topic for me. Recently, my friend invited me to his house for an evening of Fifa and Call of Duty, something that I was really into at the time. Something struck me as odd during our phone call, he jokingly added at the end of the conversation, 'Bring some lube mate', I laughed in response. It was just so out of character, he was always that friend who would get uncomfortable about his sexuality. I put it down as a joke, and even decided to buy some as a joke, so I picked some up on the way. When I came into his room I produced the lube from my pocket and said 'there's your lube you c***!' as friends often do. He laughed, I laughed. About an hour into Call of Duty he said 'I need a w**k me mate', and I thought to myself 'So do I'. We remembered the lube, at first I thought we were gonna use it separately and achieve climax alone. That's how it started, both of us j*****g off back to back, but then his hand reach around my back and onto my c**k, I won't lie it felt amazing and I c**e right on his hand. Immediately he took has back round and said 'that's gross mate'. He went to the bathroom to wash it and when he came back we went to sleep.

I know I still like girls (slept with approx. 200) but it felt too good. Can you help me? Is this a phase? Will it pass? Or am I bi-sexual?