I broke up with a 'girl' but I still love 'her'

So I had a year long relationship with this 'girl' and she was perfect, pretty, funny, intelligent and great at cleaning... a week ago though I found out that 'she' was in fact a man, who had dressed up as a girl to pick me up in the club where we met, and then fallen for me, as I had for 'her'. When I found out I obviously dumped him, problem is I'm still in love with 'her', I thought 'she' was the one, how can I get over this? Or maybe there's a chance we could still be together?

Reply 1

GlitterandGold-x

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How did you not realise when you two were getting down to business, so to speak...

Reply 2

Ananaz

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Are you sure this wasn't a dream? :curious:

Reply 3

Kevin De Bruyne

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It just takes time to recover from a break up and for the feelings to disappear completely. :console:

Reply 4

John55

OP

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Original post by GlitterandGold-x

How did you not realise when you two were getting down to business, so to speak...

Well I was a virgin before we got together and people are always saying about how girls don't look the same 'down there' as they do in porn so... I didn't want to offend her or anything either.

Just don't get all sour and bitter over it :console:

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Reply 6

John55

OP

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Original post by Ananaz

Are you sure this wasn't a dream? :curious:

Are you sure this isn't a dream?

Reply 7

GlitterandGold-x

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Original post by John55

Well I was a virgin before we got together and people are always saying about how girls don't look the same 'down there' as they do in porn so... I didn't want to offend her or anything either.

Right... so you didn't see a penis instead of a vagina and think "oh crap, she's a he?"

Reply 8

Ananaz

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Original post by John55

Well I was a virgin before we got together and people are always saying about how girls don't look the same 'down there' as they do in porn so... I didn't want to offend her or anything either.

Too appropriate for this thread.

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Reply 9

TheonlyMrsHolmes

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Original post by John55

So I had a year long relationship with this 'girl' and she was perfect, pretty, funny, intelligent and great at cleaning... a week ago though I found out that 'she' was in fact a man, who had dressed up as a girl to pick me up in the club where we met, and then fallen for me, as I had for 'her'. When I found out I obviously dumped him, problem is I'm still in love with 'her', I thought 'she' was the one, how can I get over this? Or maybe there's a chance we could still be together?