Depressed; I Want To Take My Hijab Off

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I believe that your are feeling what happens when religion is abused as a tool to control people. And I am not talking about the word of God, but of all the pressure other men and women put on you. Maybe you should leave your family and live alone. Do you think your life would be threatened if you do so? Maybe you can find a safe place to go to (I am from Germany so I do not know any details in GB).

@all the people talking rubbish: I hope you get into this situation one day so you will know what she is talking about. Where are the moderators?

Reply 21

jon2016

Touching on women, actually refers to sex.

If you have sex in Islam, it means you have to perform wudu again.

You have to perform wudu again every time you eat,sleep,****,discharge bodily fluids etc

Reply 22

BubbleBoobies

Original post by HOLA255

Self-Determinism doesn't exist.

exactly - so god can't have a logical reason to test us, because there's nothing to test that he doesn't already know. therefore, hijabs aren't a subject of a religious test and therefore are meaningless theologically

Reply 23

Zargabaath

Original post by samina_ay

Feels like you're frequent a member from here

I think a lot of student girls who wear hijabs, feel like this and post on here. It's not one OP.
That sort of comment doesn't help anyone.

Reply 24

Zargabaath

OP how old are you and how're your family going to react if you stop wearing it?

Reply 25

lovelybow

Don't wear one if you don't want to. I would like to reiterate what someone said earlier, this is Britain, a free country. Do what YOU want to do, not what someone has dictated you to do. This is your life, don't live it in regret.

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Reply 26

M14B

Original post by theBranicAc

clearly you're not a good muslim

Who are you to judge?

Reply 27

samina_ay

Original post by Zargabaath

I think a lot of student girls who wear hijabs, feel like this and post on here. It's not one OP.
That sort of comment doesn't help anyone.

I know it didn't. I don't really have any advice for her cos her family is a mess. She can't get want she wants... unless she leaves her family. Her family will not be happy with her taking the hijab off. Sparks outrage.

Reply 28

||TheUnknown||

Original post by M14B

Who are you to judge?

My thoughts exactly :five:

Reply 29

troubadour.

Original post by Anonymous

Can this be removed, please? Thanks.

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Reply 30

Anonymous #6

you need to hook up with ma boy zamestunah, he needs a habibi badly

Reply 31

Zargabaath

Original post by samina_ay

Perhaps that's what needs to happen eventually, it's not fair for her family to force her to do something she disagrees with like that. It show's a blatant lack of respect towards her.

Reply 32

MrsSheldonCooper

If it makes you depressed then take if off hun. Are you going to uni soon? Maybe you could move out and start taking it off?

Reply 33

AverageExcellence

Original post by cathartic

because you have free will and therefore allah will test you in this world through trials and tribulations to see if this strengthens or weakens your faith

Spoiler

Reply 34

Anonymous #7

Original post by cathartic

because you have free will and therefore allah will test you in this world through trials and tribulations to see if this strengthens or weakens your faith

bare effort

Reply 35

username1623349

Original post by Hydeman

Can this be removed, please? Thanks.

@Rock Fan
@georgiaswift
@Deyesy
@Tiger Rag

Done

Reply 36

BabyChow

If it upsets you that badly you should take it off. Hijab isnt just about a cloth on your head, thats something i believe you should do when you're ready.

Reply 37

h333

There is no compulsion in islam sister. But If I was you I will make sure entirely the reasons for taking it off and be true to yourself on why you want that. Also, I would also advice you to watch some videos of people like Mufti Ismael Menk, Ali Dawah Naseeha sessions etc.

After you fully understand and you would still choose to take it off then honestly no one can really stop you. It is not as if you will be no longer a muslim but just that you will choose not follow one of the obligatory rules. So Allah will judge you on that and no one has the right to judge you but Allah alone. Also Allah is all merciful. Who knows in the future you may want to return and wear the hijab again when you experience the world or mature more In shaa Allah.

Be careful of commiting major sins that may take you away from Allah/God with time as this is the plan of the shaitaan.

May Allah guide and keep you on the straight path and grant you all happiness and well being sister. :smile: