asian men beat their women?

Well men from Pakistan and UK born pakistanis are a shade of the same are they not? Since the tradition is so hard to break, right? Then they're continuing those sometimes depraved traditions...elsewhere, 9/10.

I agree that SOME Asian men can cause violence, just like SOME Black and White men.

that's pretty funny since my dad's hit me plenty before


sure?

my dad has hit my mum before......

Idk about that, sometimes I tell myself that they have their own demons to battle- maybe that's why they resort to violence? But still that's NO excuse to inflict abuse on people. It's just sad, I've always tried to see the better from people, in situations like this, I can't :/ but I'll have to move on from this and change this backward thinking

Eradicate this comepletly

Well am sorry that did happen to you.
But just because it did happen to you doesn't mean it happens in every household.

Not really, men form Pakistan are from tribal areas where they wouldn't survive, most UK Pakistanis are soft in the heart, trust me.

See you. Ppl are trying to move forward and you're draggin back denying still pointing out irrelevancies. No one said it happens in every household, you.

Ok great, bye.



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There's so many anonymous I dunno if you're the one I spoke to earlier lol

I agree no excuse and eradicate but you can't indoctrinate it unless countries make it illegal but Pakistan is politically theological. And I've seen ppl say the Koran encourages sexism and violence so. It's a shame, it's stuff like this that drags me from the left wing.

lol have I done anything to upset you?

I didn't deny anything....

Being Asian and having Asian friends I have never even remotely heard of Asian women being treated badly by Asian men.

Haha it was me anon 6 lol

And hmm, tbh, in my situation religion never played a role in the violence, only because my dad wasn't very religious...I really think in my situation is was purely a cultural/mentality thing. From what I've known, my fathers entire generation have grown up with this thinking- they legit think it's normal that beat people up. It's so backward.

Also, if we dig deeper, people from villages and poorer places in Pakistani tend to be more abusive than those from the cities (this is a trend I have learnt when asking people about stuff like this) so I conclude most of the time, it's a mentality thing

But I see your link about religion (people from the villages tend to be more religious too- just something I've realised and most Pakistanis understand so maybe there is a link as much as people deny it, but in my household, religion wasn't the case)

I mean it's too much effort to block. I'd have to look for how to do so on here. Then go to the page, try to find your name, then come back here like no. Just quit quoting you're not very mature and you're kind of like apologising for domestic abuse. Maybe I'm upset because I may or may not have dealt with domestic abuse as well and Im not even asian/muslim, as you like to point out white ppl experience it too. So I relate to ppl no matter their culture. And here you are trying to act like it's no big deal comparing the lesser of two evils!

No no you're very right that villages it happens more! They're ore vulnerable, less educated and less ability to protect themselves. Also villages might have their own gov't. That's just how it is wolrdwide in smaller more isolated or poorer areas. So they're a bit more barbaric and have to rely on their own methods and traditions. It happens in let's say China where ppl STILL buy wives but it happens more in the countryside, where the village mayors kinda let the townspeople have at it themselves and do as they say smh. I'm sure societies will be very different in different regions because of lifestyle but I'm still sure many times even immigrants like 3 or more generations ago still practice their culture. But I agree vulnerability and theology is higher in the country and small villages.

No no you're very right that villages it happens more! They're ore vulnerable, less educated and less ability to protect themselves. Also villages might have their own gov't. That's just how it is wolrdwide in smaller more isolated or poorer areas. So they're a bit more barbaric and have to rely on their own methods and traditions. It happens in let's say China where ppl STILL buy wives but it happens more in the countryside, where the village mayors kinda let the townspeople have at it themselves and do as they say smh. I'm sure societies will be very different in different regions because of lifestyle but I'm still sure many times even immigrants like 3 or more generations ago still practice their culture. But I agree vulnerability and theology is higher in the country and small villages.

Well am sorry that did happen to you.
But just because it did happen to you doesn't mean it happens in every household.

lol

They do. My mother has a pacemaker and is in bad health generally as well but that doesn't stop it. Kick, belt, slap, punch, you name it. I beg at his feet and my brother covers my mother, my siblings are screaming yet that doesn't phase him. Everyone ends up in tears covered in bruises.

And I know many my age, some as young as 16, and he comes in drunk. I know a 19 year old with two young children (under the age of 3) and she got paint from the store. She dropped the paint bucket on the way home and it spilled on the road. She paid for that with a gallon of tears and a black eye. That was just last week.
They're all cheaters, they all have multiple bitches they go out and **** while their women are abused and are back home crying to their mothers, cooking and running after the kids.

You can say it's only a few all you want, you come over here and I'll show you all the women/ girls who go through it. Yet they're all too scared to report because of all the 'shame' they'll bring unto themselves, and all the 'family honour' they'll destroy. Getting the neighbours calling 999 on you at 1 am is really preserving your family honour isn't it.

That's why I've decided I won't get married. I don't care who judges me, I'm not going to live like that.

I think domestic violence is an issue that all races have to some extent but I can only speak from my personal experience of having a Muslim dad who abused my mum and often would try justify it by saying it was 'accepted by our culture and religion'. That being said, I dont really see a solution to this and I can't blame the religion because it's not like he strictly followed all the other principals of Islam, rather I think he used religion as an excuse. I've never seen him show remorse for hurting my mum and that's just despicable because no matter what religion you follow, how can you be satisfied after harming someone you're meant to love?

Are you a girl?

My dad was the same, ****ing a prostitute in india when I was 6. I never want to get married, I'm too scared.