18 year old sexually frustruate british pakistani - muslim male!

same haha

how are you even a Muslim if you want sex badly and you've been in relationships? Just ditch islam and live the free, true life.

"Sexually frustrated British Pakistani"

So like every other young British Pakistani

So, I'm 18 and I'm really desperate for a girlfriend or to be in a relationship! I really wana be with someone and have crazy amount of love for her and be intimate with her but I'm afraid that I wont find someone. ive dated a few Pakistani muslim girls but they turn out weird, its like they have no sexual desires and even if they do have a little bit they find it taboo and don't wana talk about it, I mean I don't wana have sex before marriage if she does not want to but they act weird.

I want a girl whos almost as crazy as me in terms of sexual drive, on the side I'm pretty smart, I play cricket, got AAAB for my AS last year.. I'm trying to follow my religion but struggling tbh. but theres another problem that if I get arranged marriage or forced I wont ever be able to fulfil my sexual satisfaction.. I mean I'm crazy I want a girl to be giving me oral, I wana give her oral, my sexual drive is crazy but its a private thing too hence why this thread is anonymous... but there are no girls like this !

London?, I know so many pakistani girls who bang on the side and pray 5 times a day. There's a tonne of them bro.. Maybe you're not looking at the right place?

Its okay, OP.

Girls do love sex. Pakistani girls do love sex. Muslim girls do love sex. Girls love sex.

Its just that its such a taboo in our culture.

But yeah you'll find a girl who loves sex. I love sex even though I've never had it

Listen OP, if you're not trolling and you really are as desperate as you say you are - you have options. Make an effort to pull a girl in a club or start a relationship with one. Work on yourself too so you'll get more attention from girls - go to the gym, play sports, eat well, take care of your appearance etc. If you can't be bothered to do any of that, phone an escort and get it over with - you can find decent-looking girls at £50 for half an hour. You're a young man in the 21st century - being a Muslim isn't incompatible with having relationships and sex. I see girls in hijabs going clubbing, drinking alcohol, holding hands with guys and flirting all the time. Muslims make such a big deal about sex when there is really nothing to it. Don't be one of those two-faced Muslims who pretends to be "pure" and "innocent" when they are really only interested in sex - be honest about your intentions and people will respect you for it. Everyone has needs, and sex is a bodily function. If you deny your body what it needs, you'll make yourself sick. Do something about it - speak to someone face-to-face about it if you have to.

Not a good idea to be guiding another Muslim brother towards evil, instead we should give him Dawah lol

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Brothers and sisters wallah I'm mad desperate ! lol I wana turn back but I cant hold myself for long! since I'm a paki I don't think I'm getting married at 21 or after uni anyway so I cannot hold it..!! sorry if I sounded mad desperate or thirsty but I aint really desperate for any girl but I'm just dying I don't think I can hold it any longer.. like man is thriving madd... and especially me coming from southend there are no pakis for a relationship or marriage round er so I'm kinda dooooomed

Everytime you do feel like this, just remember Allah and read the Qu'ran. Do your prayers on time and do not miss them. Ask for patience from Allah as he will help you in this situation in shaa Allah. Also, remember to keep saying astaghfirullah whenever intentions like this comes to you.

Please discuss with your parents about marriage and that you need to get married as soon as possible in shaa Allah. It is ok you can be married and still go uni...I know some that are in this position. Both the wife and husband attend uni so why can't you?

This may be your test and prove yourself brother and show yourself as successful. Anything is possible to overcome for Allah so a desire like this is nothing. From a sister.