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Muslim girls, would you allow your husband to do this?

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She'll do what she's told when she's 9, surely?
Original post by Anonymous
Hey muslim girls,

I hope that you dont get offended by this.

If you was married, would you let your husband give you oral (cunnilingus) if he really wanted to?
What would you think of him if he wished to do this?


I can only hope my husband will do that to me when I'm married :h:
Im not even muslim and my husband wouldnt have to even ask :sexface:
Original post by littlenorthernlass
Im not even muslim


Why are you responding then :rolleyes:
Original post by The gains kinggg
no das is haram


Original post by Anonymous
No. It's haram.


Doesn't explicitly say anywhere it is haraam...
Original post by Friar Chris
Why are you responding then :rolleyes:


Felt like it:rolleyes::rolleyes:
Astaghfirullah. Then surely the man has no respect for his wife. Coming from a girl.
At the end of the day, I think its a nice thing to give a woman oral.
Women go through a lot of pain down there (periods, pregnancy, etc).
Giving a woman oral provides relief, care, comfort and joy.
Original post by Anonymous
Astaghfirullah. Then surely the man has no respect for his wife. Coming from a girl.


Read my previous post if you want to talk about respect and love.
Original post by Anonymous
Heymuslim girls,

Ihope that you dont get offended by this.

Ifyou was married, would you let your husband give you oral (cunnilingus) if hereally wanted to?
Whatwould you think of him if he wished to do this?


All men have sexual desires and this is one of the reasons why its best to get married after becoming baaligh in Islam. Now I wouldn't think anything as men having sexual desires is normal, however the advice i will give you is to educate your husband, explain to him what Islam says.

Example question: Is oral sex between husband and wife is allowed or not?
Answer: The mouth is an organ that is used to take the name of Allah Ta'ala and recite the Quraan. Hence one should refrain from using the mouth for despicable acts. Furthermore this action has a resemblance with the ways of the kuffaar and the way of the animals. We should understand that everything that is paak is not placed in one's mouth. Consider the mucus in one's nose, though it is paak, one will not place it in one's mouth.


And Allah Ta'ala knows best.

إذا أدخل الرجل ذكره في فمامرأته قد قيل يكره (الفتاوى الهندية 5/372)



فتاوى محمودية 29/142

احسن الفتاوى 8/45

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Mufti Zakaria Makada

Checked & Approved:


Mufti Ebrahim Salejee(Isipingo Beach)
Original post by Biryani007
I think there's split opinions on the permissibility of it...idk :dontknow:


Hmm mkay , won't affect me for a while either way :smile:
Is there anything that isn't haram?

Am I allowed to breath loudly?
Original post by Anonymous
Oral sex is permissible in Islam between married couples, the people who have said it's forbidden should check their facts before misleading others.


It's disliked at best, and haram at worst. http://www.daruliftaa.com/node/5680?txt_QuestionID

Original post by Anonymous
What if he wasnt addicted to porn? and just wanted to pleasure his wife and himself?


What's your point? I still wouldn't want to do it since it's still disliked/haram.
Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
Is there anything that isn't haram?

Am I allowed to breath loudly?


Well, breathing loudly has not been explicitly mentioned to be haram, therefore, yes, go forth and breathe loudly as you please.
I dont think a man giving a woman oral is as bad as a woman giving a man oral.
In the future, I will hopefully be looking for a lovely wife who is open minded and would allow her husband to do this to her because there are some open minded women out there.
At the end of the day, it isnt haram, only disliked. Mouths can be washed.
Original post by Anonymous
I dont think a man giving a woman oral is as bad as a woman giving a man oral.
In the future, I will hopefully be looking for a lovely wife who is open minded and would allow her husband to do this to her because there are some open minded women out there.
At the end of the day, it isnt haram, only disliked. Mouths can be washed.


Think the ummah is in the state that we are in because we say and think things like such as such is"only" disliked...but that's a discussion for another day
Original post by Anonymous
Read my previous post if you want to talk about respect and love.


I read it thanks. You Muslim?

But idk it is just so disgusting. Like it feels so weird and for me disrespectful to make someone do that. Honestly, I would not eant my husband to do that it is just awkward.

Tbh i do not know if it is haram or not but thing is that we as Muslims should be not stoop low to do more than necessary. I do not know if you understood that.

Trust me, some Muslims have even gone to the extent nowadays that they view anal s** as perfectly normal and ok too. Like seriously when that is obviously haram.

Anyways....still I think I would not let my husband do something so dirty and disrespect him.
Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob
Is there anything that isn't haram?

Am I allowed to breath loudly?


Anything that is not good for you and can harm you is most likely considered haram. But you have to look into it and if it is proven harmful then yeah it will be haram.

Everything in the world is halal for us until it is proven haraam.
Original post by Anonymous
Anything that is not good for you and can harm you is most likely considered haram. But you have to look into it and if it is proven harmful then yeah it will be haram.

Everything in the world is halal for us until it is proven haraam.


I think anything can be haram under the right circumstances. I could even argue the Quran was haram under such definitions given that Islamists have used it to interpret it to justify killings.

Might as well just ban it?
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