Nearly 21 (female): Never kissed, held hands with a guy or had a boyfriend.

It would be great to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation, as in "real-life" I don't know anyone.
Its currently making me feel really upset/down that I've never been able to attract anyone at the age of 21. It makes me feel undesirable, unattractive etc...
I'm currently undertaking therapy with a psychotherapist to discuss low self-esteem and lack of confidence in this area of life, but I'm not sure its helping as the advice/tips she offers require me to have some level of confidence, which quite frankly, I don't have right now.
I'm really happy in other areas of life- Got a lovely family, some great supportive friends and I do well in academia. Its just this lack of relationship experience which is making me feel terrible.
I don't have the most active social life with people around my age, but I do often make the effort to go clubbing, out drinking in bars- which I do enjoy. I suppose I socialise with friends more in the daytime- meals out, day trips, theme parks etc... Where, ultimately, its unlikely I'll meet any potential friends/love interests. I feel I come across as aloof or stuck up when I'm not-I'm just really shy!

I guess I'm coming to a point in life now where this lack of experience, and I suppose validation from men is beginning to really hurt and make me feel very undesirable. From 16-20 the issue never crossed my mind but now I feel like I could be ready, I have no confidence to push forward and pursue. Ultimately, I feel stuck and that relationships are a part of life unavailable to me.

I've uploaded a picture as it may be important.

Any advice/experiences would be great-thanks! X

Can't see your picture.

I was twenty-two before I got any interest reciprocated. It's just one of those things, some of us start later than others. It doesn't mean anything's wrong with you, except your confidence; once I decided to just go "**** it" I started getting more women showing interest in me.

wahhh I'm single and never approached a person - losers of the STR

Get over yourself, nobody cares about your insipid therapy and mental 'illness' that are used to fuel your narcissism.

It would be great to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation, as in "real-life" I don't know anyone.
Its currently making me feel really upset/down that I've never been able to attract anyone at the age of 21. It makes me feel undesirable, unattractive etc...
I'm currently undertaking therapy with a psychotherapist to discuss low self-esteem and lack of confidence in this area of life, but I'm not sure its helping as the advice/tips she offers require me to have some level of confidence, which quite frankly, I don't have right now.
I'm really happy in other areas of life- Got a lovely family, some great supportive friends and I do well in academia. Its just this lack of relationship experience which is making me feel terrible.
I don't have the most active social life with people around my age, but I do often make the effort to go clubbing, out drinking in bars- which I do enjoy. I suppose I socialise with friends more in the daytime- meals out, day trips, theme parks etc... Where, ultimately, its unlikely I'll meet any potential friends/love interests. I feel I come across as aloof or stuck up when I'm not-I'm just really shy!

I guess I'm coming to a point in life now where this lack of experience, and I suppose validation from men is beginning to really hurt and make me feel very undesirable. From 16-20 the issue never crossed my mind but now I feel like I could be ready, I have no confidence to push forward and pursue. Ultimately, I feel stuck and that relationships are a part of life unavailable to me.

I've uploaded a picture as it may be important.

Any advice/experiences would be great-thanks! X

There's nothing really to tell - I just learned to let go of my self-consiousness and talk to women. This is years ago now, and all i can say is it'll happen when it happens, and then you'll wonder how you ever managed not to just bust a move.