How to leave home without parents finding out?

Get somebody else to be your guarantor then.
But anyways your 24 years old be a ****ing adult and tell your parents you've had it with their **** and your running away from home.

I don't have anyone else?

Too bad. But anyways if your not going to be an adult and tell them your running away from home. Just forward your mail to a different address.

Its not 'running' away from home. I am leaving and there is a difference.

I'm sorry but to me you still come across as a teenager trying to escape home. Why not openly do something than stab your parents like that? Parents will always be parents regardless of what age you are. Have you not thought for a second what they would go through to see a loved one disappear out of the blue? It angers me to hear people advise you and say 'you're 24 and worried about parents?'. People grow old but still have love for their parents. So what if they're being nosy? The least you could do is respond back to them instead of cutting them off like that, grow up.

No. An adult would be "leaving" home by being honest with their parents.
A child would be running away from home when their parents aren't home and leaving a note . <--- you. lol.

Thanks for nothing then?

Anyway, to get to the point, I want to 'leave' without them knowing.
If I rent a flat, I will have to provide my current address (i.e. parents home). Then they may send some correspondence home which could get me busted?


Can anyone advise me on this? I don't want my parents to get any information on where I possibly could be.

Thanks for all your help guys

Just forward your mail to a different address.

Hi all,

I have decided to leave home now that I have finished uni. Though I have expressed this to my parents and they would never be happy about me leaving. Also my parents are sort of 'stalkerish' they like to know where I am, who my friends are, where I would be working etc and check up on me.

Anyway, to get to the point, I want to 'leave' without them knowing.
If I rent a flat, I will have to provide my current address (i.e. parents home). Then they may send some correspondence home which could get me busted?
If I apply for a house share, I may need a guarantor (i.e. parents)- this is another dead end. Though I will have a job before I apply leave home and I am 24, though I have been told I may still need a guarantor.

Can anyone advise me on this? I don't want my parents to get any information on where I possibly could be.

Thanks for all your help guys

No. An adult would be "leaving" home by being honest with their parents.
A child would be running away from home when their parents aren't home and leaving a note . <--- you. lol.

You dont know what her situation is. She might have very good reasons for wanting to leave and cut contact.

If the parents wont leave her alone, then thats a good enough reason for her to wnat to get away. Nothing wrong with leaving a note and starting fresh. Some people you cant chat with and they wont change their ways.

That does not sound like a good enough reason to disappear from your parent's life forever to me. You would break their hearts, all because you didn't want to tell them where you went on Friday night.

Where dies she say forever?
Its not about where she was on a Friday night though.
She's an adult, she can vanish if she wants to.

Not a measure to be taken lightly, but her choice all the same.

Yes their choice, but a pretty damn ungrateful one if the worst that can be said about the parents is that they are nosy.

I think we are getting half a story.

Ultimately though, I feel the OP should just grow the hell up and tell their parents that they will be moving out. As I said before, unless there is abuse that has not been mentioned, this would be the adult way for an adult to do what adults do. Repetition for emphasis.

I dont know whether she is pretty ungrateful I havent lived her life.

If she wants to vanish and has good reason to do so, then telling them in advance rather defeats the object. She can leave them a note explaining her decision. She shouild think it though, but still her decision.