Girlfriend said im too small?

DecR1998

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Reply 1

Tootles

Original post by DecR1998

I have been with her for a few weeks and we havent really done anything, we have done hand jobs but she has never seen it.

The other day we were both pretty horny when we got back after school and we were standing up kissing and for sixth form we have to dress up in suits and girls have to have smart business, so she took off my suit trousers and she went down and took off my boxers and my cock was not really hard at all and it was about 2 inches (lol) after a while it came up but she said it was too small.

I am about 5.5 inches erect is that too small? We still had sex but she said after that i am not big enough to make her cum. So we sort of had a awkward silence for 10 minutes before i went home and we havent spoke since

Im now really paranoid??? Am i too small? Girls before have not complained so???

Sorry if this is abit awkward but im quite low of confidence as it is and now im really down about it???

You're average. Just learn to use your hands and mouth :lol:

Reply 2

money-for-all

Ahahahahahahahahahhahahahahhah , you got a small willy

Reply 3

Erebor

You're above average by world standards (5.1), You'd be huge in Asia lol.

Reply 4

DecR1998

Original post by Erebor

You're above average by world standards (5.1), You'd be huge in Asia lol.

Original post by Tootles

You're average. Just learn to use your hands and mouth :lol:

I thought the average was like 7 inches?

Is there even an average for a flaccid dick?

Reply 5

Wired_1800

Original post by DecR1998

That is pretty normal. Don't overthink it.

There is this saying, "It is not the size that matters, but what you do with it."

Good luck.

Reply 6

DecR1998

Original post by Wired_1800

That is pretty normal. Don't overthink it.

There is this saying, "It is not the size that matters, but what you do with it."

Good luck.

Thanks man, its never been said before and it just made me think if the others thought the same but didnt say anything.

Sucks man

Reply 7

chris_mm

13 year old bi**ches complaining about small penis size, and when they sleep with a bigger guy, they also complain that it hurts. I never heard anybody saying that an almost 6 inch one is small.

Reply 8

EricPiphany

Original post by DecR1998

Lol, she'll most probably have do tell a few more people that, before she runs into someone that meets her standards. Awkward much. Feel sorry for her.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

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Reply 10

JS31294

At the end of the day whats 'normal' nowadays. If a girl wants to have sex with you but then in the next breath say 'you're too small' well i'm sorry but thats just not the right way to go about it, its just degrading for you and making you feel bad.

I would NEVER say anything like that to my boyfriend and i don't think you ever should. Theres all this stuff about body shaming at the moment saying we shouldnt call people fat etc. Well i think that should go for penis size, boobs etc. You should be happy with how you are and if people dont like it they should not say anything at all.

You'll find a much better girl than her who im sure we be more than happy with your penis dont worry.

Reply 11

Pigster

Are you the first teenage boy who had his boxers taken off by a girl who managed to stay soft?

When I was a teenager, just being in the room with a girl usually gave me a stiffy.

Reply 12

mkap

tell her its bc she's loose bc of the amount of guys shes slept with looool

Reply 13

chris_mm

Original post by Pigster

When I was a teenager, just being in the room with a girl usually gave me a stiffy.

Overkill much?

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

Original post by DecR1998

I thought the average was like 7 inches?

Is there even an average for a flaccid dick?

Are you mad?! 7 inches is way above average, the average is around 5.5-5.7 inches when erect.

Flaccid length can vary and is generally not an indicator of erect length.

Reply 15

Dragon24

Maybe she should become your ex girlfriend.

Reply 16

DecR1998

Original post by Pigster

Are you the first teenage boy who had his boxers taken off by a girl who managed to stay soft?

When I was a teenager, just being in the room with a girl usually gave me a stiffy.

Maybe

Original post by Anonymous

Flaccid length can vary and is generally not an indicator of erect length.

I think my flaccid length is more of what she was implying it was quite embarrassing as it was literally 2 inches and it wouldnt come up and the awkwardness of it was making it worse lmao

Reply 17

DecR1998

Original post by Angel83

Maybe she should become your ex girlfriend.

Well we havent spoken since and i dont think we will really. But it kind of sucks because my dick isnt going to grow by dumping her?

Original post by JS31294

Thanks! It does give a blow to the confidence but whatever i guess. Thanks for the reply appreciate it :h:

Reply 18

DanB1991

Original post by DecR1998

I thought the average was like 7 inches?

Is there even an average for a flaccid dick?

Nahhh that's too large.... it's 3.5 inches flaccid and 5.1-5.3 inches erect....

Which is great for everyone with 7 inches! :lol:

Apparently when you start getting to 8 inches they're starting to get too big for some girls, but even the circumference at the 5-8inches mark is more important. Most the stimulation for girls happens at less than 6 inches *I think*.

Reply 19

FluffyCommie

Original post by DecR1998

You're definitely not too small, as most people have said, you're about average!
As for her comment about you not being able to "make her cum", don't worry about that. Orgasms from penetration are not common in every Woman, and what you should be taking advantage of is other parts of your body; your hands and your mouth (tongue) to make her orgasm. (not that it should be the main focus of sex anyway, just have a good time :biggrin:

)

If it's the end of the road for you two, then just know that for most girls, it won't be a problem at all. But if you are still together, try to surprise her in different ways, and take the focus of the thing she makes you self-concious about :smile: