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Blocked by a girl for the first time in my life

Im so hurt right now, I dont know whats wrong with me my confidence level is negative right now

So last week friday I got a girls number, I saw her campus and I came intro myself and she gave me not one but two of her numbers... later that day I msg her and tells me she can't remember me (1) nd I must send her a pic. The following day I sent her a pic and later I saw her at campus but she was with a very large group of girls so I thought texting her would be ideal....


So I text her "hey are you around ??"

She replied with "yes but im busy (2)"
I thouggt okay she doining something lemme leave her.... 4 days later (Today) this is the convo that led to her blocking:


M: This is ridiculous we see each at campus everyday but we don't talk

H: you mean you see me everyday (3)

M: u dont see me seriously ?

H: No

M: are you going to be around tomorrow ?

H: im outt of towm (4)

M: u @The countryside ?

H: **** off

M: why would you say that

H: ask B4 u assume shii

H: **** off and leave me alone

Blocked



I have gotten 3 numbers at school so far and none of them have led to anything :frown: im soo depressed! When I was doing my A-levels dating was, now its like im facing a ****ing iron wall
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Original post by nerdling_CompSci
Im so hurt right now, I dont know whats wrong with me my confidence level is negative right now

So last week friday I got a girls number, I saw her campus and I came intro myself and she gave me not one but two of her numbers... later that day I msg her and tells me she can't remember me (1) nd I must send her a pic. The following day I sent her a pic and later I saw her at campus but she was with a very large group of girls so I thought texting her would be ideal....


So I text her "hey are you around ??"

She replied with "yes but im busy (2)"
I thouggt okay she doining something lemme leave her.... 4 days later (Today) this is the convo that led to her blocking:


M: This is ridiculous we see each at campus everyday but we don't talk

H: you mean you see me everyday (3)

M: u dont see me seriously ?

H: No

M: are you going to be around tomorrow ?

H: im outt of towm (4)

M: u @The countryside ?

H: **** off

M: why would you say that

H: ask B4 u assume shii

H: **** off and leave me alone

Blocked



I have gotten 3 numbers at school so far and none of them have led to anything :frown: im soo depressed!
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What are you trying to achieve by texting these ppl??
Reply 2
Welcome to the world. Move on.

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Congratulations you avoided a horrible excuse for a person
lol
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Original post by nerdling_CompSci
Im so hurt right now, I dont know whats wrong with me my confidence level is negative right now

So last week friday I got a girls number, I saw her campus and I came intro myself and she gave me not one but two of her numbers... later that day I msg her and tells me she can't remember me (1) nd I must send her a pic. The following day I sent her a pic and later I saw her at campus but she was with a very large group of girls so I thought texting her would be ideal....


So I text her "hey are you around ??"

She replied with "yes but im busy (2)"
I thouggt okay she doining something lemme leave her.... 4 days later (Today) this is the convo that led to her blocking:


M: This is ridiculous we see each at campus everyday but we don't talk

H: you mean you see me everyday (3)

M: u dont see me seriously ?

H: No

M: are you going to be around tomorrow ?

H: im outt of towm (4)

M: u @The countryside ?

H: **** off

M: why would you say that

H: ask B4 u assume shii

H: **** off and leave me alone

Blocked



I have gotten 3 numbers at school so far and none of them have led to anything :frown: im soo depressed!
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How old are you OP?
Is your name John Cena
Reply 7
I think you need to talk to people in person and get to know them first before you ask for their number , i guess??
Original post by may999
I think you need to talk to people in person and get to know them first before you ask for their number , i guess??


you guess correctly
Original post by Alien Warrior
you guess correctly


Not really she's just incredibly rude. I wouldn't talk to anyone like this, even people I didn't like very much.
If anyone who should have negative confidence it is her.
Original post by DanteTheDoorWot
Not really she's just incredibly rude. I wouldn't talk to anyone like this, even people I didn't like very much.
If anyone who should have negative confidence it is her.


in general though
I've met quite a lot of people like this - most of the time if you find common grounds through a brief chat, people are much more likely to uphold conversations with you and this will also help in future. Especially as life goes on you'll be able to differentiate those who are worth your time and those who aren't. However, you can't always assume that just by getting a girl's number that she'll put in the same amount of effort that you do - most of the time this just isn't the case. :smile: I hope you're feeling alright and keep trying; who knows, you may just find someone nice enough to expand that friendship on if you want it to :3
Original post by thefatone
What are you trying to achieve by texting these ppl??


What do you mean ? I only ask a girls number I want to pursue something with

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Original post by A321
Welcome to the world. Move on.

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Well the world stinks then

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Original post by M14B
How old are you OP?


1996

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Original post by may999
I think you need to talk to people in person and get to know them first before you ask for their number , i guess??


I think this is better for real, so you suggest I leave texting girls ?

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welcome to reality
Original post by SilverActor2033
I've met quite a lot of people like this - most of the time if you find common grounds through a brief chat, people are much more likely to uphold conversations with you and this will also help in future. Especially as life goes on you'll be able to differentiate those who are worth your time and those who aren't. However, you can't always assume that just by getting a girl's number that she'll put in the same amount of effort that you do - most of the time this just isn't the case. :smile: I hope you're feeling alright and keep trying; who knows, you may just find someone nice enough to expand that friendship on if you want it to :3


Thank you :smile:

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Original post by Alien Warrior
Is your name John Cena


Meaning ?

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Original post by nerdling_CompSci
I think this is better for real, so you suggest I leave texting girls ?

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No, just pursue ones that aren't nasty. Even if she did like you? She sounds vile.

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