I don't think marriage exists any more.
A marriage used to be a contract, like a phone contract, which could not be cancelled or at least could only be cancelled with the side wanting the cancellation paying large penalties.
Today, marriage can be broken at any time, and for any reason, and with no special penalty for whoever decided to break it. It is not a contract. It is merely a public statement that two people intend to stay together, but make no actual binding commitment to do so.
So what is called marriage today is not about two people making a lifelong commitment to start a family, it is just about division of property when short term relationships collapse. I would agree that the division of property it imposes is generally much worse than men would get if they either competitively bargained a contract with their partner or just made no contract at all. But even calling it marriage is deeply misleading.