Who knew paying for a meal would be so complicated?
Why do people care who pays for the bill? I feel anyone that takes a strong position on this issue is probably not ready for the demands and compromises of a relationship. If you have a problem with either paying £30 for a meal or with not paying £30 for a meal, then you've got more serious problems.
One thing I will say for the traditional position is that at we knew what the **** was going on. At least you knew whether you were paying for the meal or not.
Now the issue clearly such a minefield.
Would you like a moral minefield with your side of salad, Sir? Certainly the **** not.
SS