Fair enough I understand your point of view.
But I just view things very differently.
As a young man, particularly during a dry spell, it's just always on the mind. It feels like a natural extension of my personhood.
When I see attractive women ,real life or otherwise, my brain and body just tell me " we want that".
The other part is that if I'm seeing someone I can't imagine a situation where things didn't escalate physically. If I feel a mental or physical connection both the girl and I will want to get at each other. Get naked, get close and experience something.
I know we have differing views but do you understand where I'm coming from.