Should I give him head?

Hi guys basically I've known this guy for nearly a year through some friends and stuff, we used to talk for a bit and he used to try and flirt with me saying i was pretty and stuff like that but only through whatsapp
A few days ago he's started to talk to me again and tells be about these girls (that I know of) who've given him head and all the details, he's probably bulshitting 25% of the time but he's exaggerating.
He's asked if I want to link up and 'do the same' and I dont actually know, part of me is curious and because he's so distant to me none of my friends will know what i've done. The other part of me knows he will start telling other people what i've done, but i'll never come across these people unless I want to.
I'm 16 and he's in the year above, but I don't know whether I should ?

No.

OP

Also i've never done anything like this, a lot of people see me as ''innocent''

Reply 3

davgen7

2

Nope, recipe for regret in the making rn

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by generallee

No.

Why so sure?

Reply 5

Davalla

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Original post by Anonymous

Also i've never done anything like this, a lot of people see me as ''innocent''

I see you as a bit of a brainless baboon after this thread.

Reply 6

samlade

5

He seams like a bit of a tool, it does seam as though he is just using you for some easy sex. I really wouldn't bother. What would you get out of giving him head when you don't even love him?

Reply 7

mcfatty

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Original post by Anonymous

Why so sure?

personally if i were in your position you'd just be put in a bad light and he'd be a "stud" getting more and more girls to suck his knob

Reply 8

jakeg146

no way. recipe for a chain of events that'll lead you being regretful and anxious for around a year and a half

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Blitzzer

no you don't even know him don't be silly

I do know him

Reply 10

generallee

16

Because it will make you feel badly about yourself.

Get treated like a slut, and you will feel like one.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

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Original post by samlade

He seams like a bit of a tool, it does seam as though he is just using you for some easy sex. I really wouldn't bother. What would you get out of giving him head when you don't even love him?

Tbh I want to know what the experience is like, I don't want any feelings with him either he's off to uni next year so idk

Reply 12

cbatothinkofone

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If you don't want people to know that you've done it, then don't.

If you're okay with the idea of people finding out about it, and if you want to do it- for yourself and your own personal experience, not to try to impress him or to get him to like you- then go for it.

Be careful though. He seems like a bit of a prick, so don't expect it to be literally anything more than a hookup.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

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Original post by jakeg146

no way. recipe for a chain of events that'll lead you being regretful and anxious for around a year and a half

My minds everywhere, the more people say no the more i'm tempted :/ No one would find out i'd just loose a few people I keep in contact with but not major friends

Reply 14

samlade

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Original post by Anonymous

Tbh I want to know what the experience is like, I don't want any feelings with him either he's off to uni next year so idk

Fair enough, if you are confident that you want to do it and feel safe go for it.

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by cbatothinkofone

If you don't want people to know that you've done it, then don't.

If you're okay with the idea of people finding out about it, and if you want to do it- for yourself and your own personal experience, not to try to impress him or to get him to like you- then go for it.

Be careful though. He seems like a bit of a prick, so don't expect it to be literally anything more than a hookup.