Asker her out, didn't say yes or no

Oh right yeah it's 03:30AM I forgot

If I were you I would suggest threesome. If she says no you may get a girlfriend. If she says yes, well, you get a threesome

Are you a girl?

You haven't had sex yet, so you're not quite at the FWB stage yet.

She seems to me like one of those girls who doesn't want to be held down - in fact most girls want to be free.

I would say just go with it for the time being and see how things develop.

Well okay I didn't actually sleep on them, I laid on them but they was comfy and I felt like falling asleep

and I asked for a straight answer but she said "Nothing's straight with me" (she is either lesbian or bi).

comedy gold.

There is no way of telling.

I think, go to sleep feeling happy and see where the morning takes you.

I'm a boy, so that's why I'm confused haha

How do you know she dates/****s girls too?


She's clearly attracted to you, so if I were you I'd let this thing develop naturally. Don't contact her until she does. When she does, assume she wants to meet and then ask her out.

If she turns you down with some BS excuse, just ask her to let you know when she can.

You need her to be chasing you, not the other way round.

How do you know she dates/****s girls too?


She's clearly attracted to you, so if I were you I'd let this thing develop naturally. Don't contact her until she does. When she does, assume she wants to meet and then ask her out.

If she turns you down with some BS excuse, just ask her to let you know when she can.

You need her to be chasing you, not the other way round.

She's extremely shy so that's why I asked her out, she did say I was cute and I had pretty eyes so she's definately attracted to me in some way, I just don't know if she wants a relationship or not

Forget about "having a relationship" with her. A lot of guys jump the gun far too soon and women can feel it and get turned off.

90% of guys, when they meet a new girl, instantly think of how it'd be to be in a relationship with her. I know I do/did.

Be focused on dating her, taking her out, having sex, having fun, etc...

Do what I said. You'll get results, I assure you.

What messages did you send the friend?
You are getting needy which is a turn off and sending flowers and waiting outside her house is creepy. You did ruin it by saying you want to go out with her as the excitement is now gone and you should have just let things develop instead of coming on too strong.

Just becuase her friend said a week ago she won't be interested in me so I told her we kissed, then she said she would have been drunk so I replied saying she was definately not drunk.

Yeah kinda sounds creepy tbf, I am not a creepy guy but I just wanted to apologise in person.

Then just text to arrange to meet up and apologise in person telling her you are outside her house would weird me out if I'm not close to you.
How long you known this girl for?

If not long the best thing is to develop that slowly by being there for her showing you care by your actions but not outright telling her your feelings keep the mystery.
Now she knows your intentions she might not see you as a challenge and if someone asked me out quite soon and I wasn't ready I would distance myself from them to avoid stringing them along and hurting them.

Known her for only 5 weeks. I understand what you're saying I'm not pressuring her in any way, since she knows my intentions there isn't much of a mystery now although I need to make it back up to her.

It's better now she's speaking to me again after I screwed up and think I'll meet her later to apologise as she agreed to.

How well do you know her?
When you meet her don't ask her to go out with you. Let her come to you just be there for her and don't pressure her for an answer.

I know her pretty well after 4 'dates' I decided it was definately the time, she's asked to meet me pretty much every time.