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In love with my best guy friend.....he's a conservative muslim

he says he'll marry and then fall in love...
IDK what to say...
that means he'll go back home and rather have an arranged marriage....
than give us a chance...
I don't have the courage to tell him....

Reply 1

x-bhakti-patel

Maybe u should try and see if he likes u back, by somehow confronting him with what u feel about him, and see what he has to say?

Reply 2

Missimperfect18

Original post by x-bhakti-patel

Maybe u should try and see if he likes u back, by somehow confronting him with what u feel about him, and see what he has to say?

tbh I did once and he said" relationships are haraam but I really like you..."
and he is saving himself for his wife...

Reply 3

x-bhakti-patel

Original post by Missimperfect18

tbh I did once and he said" relationships are haraam but I really like you..."
and he is saving himself for his wife...

ok, but u say that he is conservative right?, so isnt he like modern in some way, and so maybe his thoughts on this might have changed, since u last asked him :smile:

Reply 4

Missimperfect18

Original post by x-bhakti-patel

ok, but u say that he is conservative right?, so isnt he like modern in some way, and so maybe his thoughts on this might have changed, since u last asked him :smile:

he does tell me stuff about everything he doesn't even tell his family but I feel
its not love

Reply 5

x-bhakti-patel

Original post by Missimperfect18

he does tell me stuff about everything he doesn't even tell his family but I feel
its not love

why do u feel that its not love, what does he do that makes u feel this? If u dont mind me asking, it may help me understand ur situation a bit better :smile: