I don't want to live the life my parents want me to do!

Holy run on sentences, Batman!


Although I definitely sympathize with your situation, and wanting to lead your own way in life, I think your priorities are still not ideal. You're mixing your need for designer clothing with a career. Judging by your post, it seems like you wouldn't be successful in Medicine anyway, considering you don't have any interest in it. You should take time to think over what you really want to study, and how you may be able to convince your parents of that, or come to a consensus.

And you should also think about leaving behind this notion of judging your self worth by your possession of designer clothing, and turn it into your goals in life; whether they be of physical appearance or academic success (or anything really).

I am tired of waiting I have all my life wanted one thing which is to feel good about myself and look nice just once in my life I feel absolutely hideous and worthless I feel unmotivated to study.I just want to feel good I am tired of feeling ashamed of my appearance i am tired of having a low self-esteem.Ok I had enough I live my life dreaming and waiting and waiting i am tired of waiting to wear what I want I feel depressed because I feel like i am getting nowhere and i don't feel like studying anymore because to reap the rewards takes a long time and I want to feel confident in who I am.

I am tired of waiting I have all my life wanted one thing which is to feel good about myself and look nice just once in my life I feel absolutely hideous and worthless I feel unmotivated to study.I just want to feel good I am tired of feeling ashamed of my appearance i am tired of having a low self-esteem.Ok I had enough I live my life dreaming and waiting and waiting i am tired of waiting to wear what I want I feel depressed because I feel like i am getting nowhere and i don't feel like studying anymore because to reap the rewards takes a long time and I want to feel confident in who I am.

Which other high paying careers do you have in mind?

Expensive clothes won't make you feel whole. I think this is resentment towards your parents more than a clothing thing.

Self esteem can be affected by parents who make you feel that you're not good enough and your post seems to portray a sense of this. You are a worthwhile person no matter what your parents do or do not say and do.

All I will advise is choose to do something you have a passion for first and something which you enjoy!
Doing what you love will make you happy rather than something you have no interest in.

Which other high paying careers do you have in mind?

You cannot find a gap coat or a zara coat that looks like a yohji yamamoto coat ok I looked and looked and all affordable clothing are ugly compared to designer as none look similar.I never see any avant grade clothing only ugly conservative clothing and plain scarf made out of cheap cotton no cashmere or silk.

They want me to become a doctor I don't want to study until I am 24 then 3 years training or longer if I want to became a surgeon lets say.I will be then earning about 30,000 per year.I am passionate about fashion and I want to wear what I want they don't want to get me designer clothing then if they want me to make my own money then sorry I am not becoming a doctor with crappy salary it only gets good if you have plenty of experience I don't want to wait until my 40s to wear what i want.I want to feel confident that is all I want all my life i felt ashamed of myself because of my clothes I felt ugly and not confident all I want is to feel good about myself.My parents could afford designer clothing but they only purchase it for themselves never for me.I just want to look nice i am tired of always looking ugly it makes me sad.

If you feel like **** in conservative clothing then investment banking is not the career for you

I'm not even going to go into the doctor malarkey.
1. its not your god given right to demand clothes off your parents, if you want expensive clothes get a part time job? Things wont be handed to you on a plate forever.
2. Investment banker is long, tedious, awkward hours with crap pay until you're into your 40s too, as well as the other jobs you mentioned
3. If you really want to live in expensive clothes, you're going to struggle at uni. Pretty much everyone I know lives in Primark clothes... good bye top shop!
4. Quite frankly you sound pretty spoilt. People can tell if all you wear is designer clothes and 9/10 it comes across as up yourself and spoilt.

They want me to become a doctor I don't want to study until I am 24 then 3 years training or longer if I want to became a surgeon lets say.I will be then earning about 30,000 per year.I am passionate about fashion and I want to wear what I want they don't want to get me designer clothing then if they want me to make my own money then sorry I am not becoming a doctor with crappy salary it only gets good if you have plenty of experience I don't want to wait until my 40s to wear what i want.I want to feel confident that is all I want all my life i felt ashamed of myself because of my clothes I felt ugly and not confident all I want is to feel good about myself.My parents could afford designer clothing but they only purchase it for themselves never for me.I just want to look nice i am tired of always looking ugly it makes me sad.

I have 1 designer jumper 2 designer t shirts 1 designer jeans.There is nothing wrong with being spoilt we say it is because we envy spoilt children including myself am envious of them.Please give me a list of high paying respectable jobs then I will appreciate it thank you.