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does this make me a bad person

In march me and my boyfriend who i love to bits broke up. I really wish we could still be friends as i had never loved anyone before.

However he is focused purely on school and is barely socialising anymore, and so i decided to move on and talk to other guys and get to know them, however ive grown and started having feelings for more than one guy;

Person One- we go to school together and have had a rough history with him sending me nudes

Person Two is someone from another school but in the same year, we talk everyday and he seems to genuinely care, however he is too busy to meet 9weve been trying to meet up for a month)

Person THree is two years older and has finished his college course and is now modelling

Person Four is 5 years older and we have a history as we did date however it didnt work and he is very close to my older cousin..

I dont know whther to wait, as there are another two guys as welll or just keep going talking to all of them

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wait if i was you
Reply 2
Original post by Anonymous

I dont know whther to wait, as there are another two guys as welll or just keep going talking to all of them


So there's six people that you fancy?
:eek:
he sent you nudes?
:eek:


or the other way round...

:perv:
Just as long as you let everyone know where you stand then it would seem fine to me, it only starts becoming bad when you start to lie or pretend x
Wow there's you with 6 guys to choose from and I can't even find one decent guy 😂 Congrats
Reply 6
Original post by Davalla
So there's six people that you fancy?
:eek:


yeah, im attracted to six but theres only 4 i would say yes to
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
he sent you nudes?
:eek:


or the other way round...

:perv:


he sent them to me :/
im a good girl
Reply 8
Original post by CrazyKittenLady
Just as long as you let everyone know where you stand then it would seem fine to me, it only starts becoming bad when you start to lie or pretend x


is it bad i talk and flirt wiht all of them, they dont know eahcother
Original post by Anonymous
Wow there's you with 6 guys to choose from and I can't even find one decent guy 😂 Congrats


I suspect your opinions on 'decent' differ.
Original post by Anonymous
is it bad i talk and flirt wiht all of them, they dont know eahcother


Frankly doing whatever you like with any of them is fine, provided you've not decided you're in an exclusive relationship with them. Whether you want to or it is well advised is another matter, but you're only young once.
Original post by Elivercury
Frankly doing whatever you like with any of them is fine, provided you've not decided you're in an exclusive relationship with them. Whether you want to or it is well advised is another matter, but you're only young once.


yeah like we flirt and ive done things with some of them, but im trying to find someone right for a long term relationship- like we can talk and cuddle as well as physical, i just need to see which one
Original post by Anonymous
yeah like we flirt and ive done things with some of them, but im trying to find someone right for a long term relationship- like we can talk and cuddle as well as physical, i just need to see which one


Again, until you enter a long term exclusive relationship with one of them, you are a free entity and can do whatever you please with whomever you please.
Original post by Anonymous
is it bad i talk and flirt wiht all of them, they dont know eahcother


I think talking is obviously fine but i don't think leading someone on with out letting them know where you stand is fair on them. If you let them know you are after nothing serious then i see know problem with that x
Original post by Anonymous
Wow there's you with 6 guys to choose from and I can't even find one decent guy 😂 Congrats


Well hell, she never said these guys were decent.
Original post by CrazyKittenLady
I think talking is obviously fine but i don't think leading someone on with out letting them know where you stand is fair on them. If you let them know you are after nothing serious then i see know problem with that x


nah i want something serious, but i wanna get to know them more and see who i have the best chance having a long term relationship. previously i have attracted boys who purely want head/sex or are really controlling and want to speak 24/7 and meet every day- even when im busy with family or exams

i want someone that has the same priorities as me and understands me, who i can open up to and be physical with
Original post by Anonymous
nah i want something serious, but i wanna get to know them more and see who i have the best chance having a long term relationship. previously i have attracted boys who purely want head/sex or are really controlling and want to speak 24/7 and meet every day- even when im busy with family or exams

i want someone that has the same priorities as me and understands me, who i can open up to and be physical with


You've already been physical with them though?
Original post by Anonymous
In march me and my boyfriend who i love to bits broke up. I really wish we could still be friends as i had never loved anyone before.

However he is focused purely on school and is barely socialising anymore, and so i decided to move on and talk to other guys and get to know them, however ive grown and started having feelings for more than one guy;

Person One- we go to school together and have had a rough history with him sending me nudes

Person Two is someone from another school but in the same year, we talk everyday and he seems to genuinely care, however he is too busy to meet 9weve been trying to meet up for a month)

Person THree is two years older and has finished his college course and is now modelling

Person Four is 5 years older and we have a history as we did date however it didnt work and he is very close to my older cousin..

I dont know whther to wait, as there are another two guys as welll or just keep going talking to all of them


Assuming you're from the UK and judging by what you wrote I think you're 15/16.

Person 4 is 5 years older which makes him 20/21. Defo not him as you both are at two different stages in your life and it's not a good idea!

Person 1 seems like he just wants it tbh and is trying to get close to you to get it.

I dont really have opinions for the other 4.

You should wait tbh to have a real idea instead of falling for 20 more guys lol


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Focus on school
jesus christ, ur still in school with 5 potential men on the go.
get a grip and sew ur bloody legs shut

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