What is my sexuality

I am a male, (14) and I am attracted to girls emotionally. I am also atracted to girls sexually, as well as being sexually attracted to hermaphrodites, and kind of to men. Please tell me what the name of my sexuality is called. Thank you

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attention seeker.

Original post by saeed9740

attention seeker.

I've missed you

cuteee pie

bicurious?

"and I am attracted to girls emotionally. I am also atracted to girls sexually" Straight

sexually attracted to hermaphrodites Do you mean real hermaphrodites or boys that dress up like girls? Either way you seem to be Bi

All you Can be is gay/bi/Straight.so just look these up and see what you think you are.
Also you may grow out of it.

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BWV1007

Original post by Question b

feminosexual hermaphroromantic part-time homocurious

in other words

Spoiler

Reply 7

_Fergo

Original post by saeed9740

attention seeker.

That answer was funny, I'll give you that :P

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Reply 8

Rorschach II

bisexual, leaning more towards the opposite sex?

Remember this is only categories, so there mustn't be a need to fit exactly inside the box.

There's no need to fit inside a box at all. It's just comforting for most to find a label.

Reply 9

markvr

Original post by BWV1007

feminosexual hermaphroromantic part-time homocurious

in other words

Spoiler

Oh my god not gonna lie I read that and thought "crikey, more orientations for me to get acquainted with".

The spoiler made me chuckle :giggle:

Greedy.

Original post by Question b

Weird

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Reply 12

idontknowmedoyou

Who cares what your sexuality is? why do you need to define it?

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Reeeeyah

Original post by ServantOfMorgoth

Weird

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Rude.

Reply 14

banterboy

mate we all watch weird porn every now and again its not a sexuality

Reply 15

banterboy

Original post by XcitingStuart

i hate this "ooh dont define it " crap.

Every possible set is definable, even if it contains just one member, and if you don't want to even figure out yourself then you have no intellectual curiosity whatsoever and are ****ing boring

Reply 16

banterboy

Original post by Reeeeyah

Rude.

it makes sense you'd not want anybody's sexuality taken the piss out of considering you clearly have a thing for ur dog

Reply 17

elizahughes

Original post by Question b

Don't feel like you need to label your sexuality! It is a spectrum and you are young, you'll discover a lot about yourself in the next few years (coming from an 18 year old).

However, if you only have a sexual attraction to men, it may be a kind of fetish - I'm not sure if that's the right word, but if you can't imagine yourself being in a relationship with a man, it may be a purely sexual thing. Many straight girls prefer watching lesbian porn because they can identify more with the body etc.

If you are really unsure, it may be a good idea to experiment, you have lots of time. But honestly, no one can tell you what your sexuality is - ultimately, you know yourself better than anyone, and one day it might just click and you will know

Reply 18

Rorschach II

Original post by banterboy

You're the one being ****ing ridiculous here.

Of course it's nice to have a label, it simplifies things, it makes things easier.

But I'll show you how complicated it can get.

I'm sexually attracted to men, I'm romantically attracted to women, but I get more sexually attracted to them the better I know them.

So I'm a heteroromantic pansexual-with-women bisexual. (Still far more nuanced but I'm not going to go into that level of detail.)

There isn't even a consistent definition for the word pansexual!

Anyway, I don't even hold the view you spout I have!!! I never said "don't define it!" I said in other words one needn't fit perfectly in a category, because sexual attraction and sexual orientation are both so nuanced.

I'll add a bit more to complicate the mix:
sexual orientation is your sex / gender in relation to the sex(es) / gender(s) to which you're sexually attracted.

Keep up?

This is why sexual orientation and sex and gender are distinct, yet so intricately linked. (Gender is your "sense of self" in relation to your sex.)

So once people start transgressing the sex binary (intersex) or the gender binary (e.g. transgender) see how complicated these labels become? (This can also be induced by hormone therapy or genders reassignment surgery.)

So let's sum up: sex, gender, sexual attraction (which branches into paraphilias and sexual orientation.) Sexual attraction is often conflated with behaviour by the way.

If everything is so relative how can you possibly ascribe a label / a new label to everything? You'd need thousands. It's good to concisely know what they are / how to describe them, but it's silly and there's no need to sum it up all into one word / a few words.

Unless this post was bait and I got hooked.

Anyway, I have figured myself out, to a far greater degree than you can ever imagine; so pinpoint. And I have intellectual curiosity.

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Reply 19

BirdIsWord

You're 14 fam you're most likely straight but just confused and/or bicurious.

Thanks Tumblr/Obama btw.. THIS is what the kids of today are worrying about.. Not which Pokemon they're adding to their team next :frown: