Girls if you had a crush on a guy

No body when I say I haven't liked a guy for the right reasons it means I just liked how he looked or what he had. If someone gives you butterflies you must really like them for who they are, for me any who.

Ive been told i give girls butterflies. I never get approached, i always have to do the approaching and i really can't be bothered.

Why can't you be bothered?

I just really can't be bothered, when i do approach they respond really well.
Ill put little bit of effort then i expect reciprocation.
I get ignored by every girl in a group, unless I'm speaking. When girls trying that hard to avoid looking at me, I'm either ugly or a 10/10. Personally i think I'm neither.
kassandra find me a girl please.

You don't need girlfriends you just need friends. But this post really confused me, you're saying you get girls, you approach them they respond well, and all these girls have crushes on you so what do you need help with ?