Evil is what a religious fanatic uses.
No, they're technically not a paedophile if they've never acted on their urges. I too find it admirable that they resist their urges but it is mandatory to do so anyway.
It's not their fault they're born like that but if they have self control then i think that's fine.
If OP thinks a paedophile should be put down even when they're causing no harm and controlling their urges then OP is a backward thinking idiot.