I got my FWB pregnant and she wants to keep it?

Incidentally, I must admit that I find it slightly suspect that she has found out she's pregnant after just two weeks. This seems very low to me, but then it's possible she was expecting her period, or she's further gone than she thinks.

Strictly speaking, 'two weeks pregnant' is not a thing - pregnancy is typically counted from the date of the woman's last period, and given that ovulation usually occurs two weeks after that, 'two weeks pregnant' is pretty much the moment of conception, at which point it's certainly not possible to know whether you are or aren't pregnant. But, I'm assuming the OP/the girl are using the phrase in the sense of 'has been pregnant for two weeks' (i.e. four weeks pregnant as it's typically counted), and while that's very early, a home pregnancy test can definitely give a result by that date (and, in fact, the more sensitive brands can detect pregnancy a few days earlier). Given that most women will have their period about two weeks after ovulation, it's not unreasonable that she would have noticed its absence (especially if she's usually very regular) and done a test.

If you cut off all communications now and tell her you don't want the child, she might be lacking in evidence to have you as the 'assumed father' and a court would be unable to force you into a DNA test.

Congratulations! Invite us to your baby shower please!

Although you would usually be legally obliged to pay child maintenance, this can only be ordered if it is proved you are the father.

If you cut off all communications now and tell her you don't want the child, she might be lacking in evidence to have you as the 'assumed father' and a court would be unable to force you into a DNA test.

If she knows she will have difficulty getting child maintenance from you, she might reconsider having it at all!

Congrats!

He's too big for the obviously.

I find it hilarious men actually get away with using this as an excuse.

I have also seen a pregnancy happen because the guy was too incompetent to put one on. After 20 minutes of trying, they gave up and had sex without. Cue baby 9 months later. Ridiculous.

She is two weeks pregnant. There is no "baby". There is a pile of random cells and DNA that can be easily aborted.

He has every right to suggest his preference for an abortion. He has no right to attempt to coerce or force her into having an abortion. Stop being ridiculous.

Incidentally, I must admit that I find it slightly suspect that she has found out she's pregnant after just two weeks. This seems very low to me, but then it's possible she was expecting her period, or she's further gone than she thinks.

And this, my friends, would be why women think most men are *****.

You share a hell of a lot of responsibility for engaging in unsafe sex with the girl. You also share partial responsibility for the baby she is now to care for because you were not careful. It is her body and she can decide to do what she pleases. You should grow up, act responsible, and talk to the girl about what's happened - not just abandon her like a selfish bratty child.

Wait when you say big are we referring to size of his downstairs or how big his ego is? I've managed to fit my foot in a condom so whenever a guy says that kind of excuse it most probably is BS.

One thing that disgusts me the most is how OP is planning to leave her to deal with the baby alone even though he is partially responsible. If he advised her on an abortion and she declined, like a mature 21 year old he could try to support her and make sure she's ok. You'd think once people hit in their twenties they'd have an ounce of maturity but some clearly don't.

I've seen something similar happen too. Sad part was the guy left the girl and she dealt with the baby herself. Nine years later he wants to see the kid but obviously the girl resented him for what he did. If a guy told me that he didn't want to wear a condom I would downright refuse unless I was on the implant or something. I don't trust the pill.

How is it unsafe sex when she told him she was on the pill you melt.

In my opinion if the girl genuinely lied about being on contraception then the guy has every right to leave her.

How many more times must it be said - no form of contraception is 100% effective.

And yes, and that is a very big "if".

Yes, they are referring to the size of their 'manhood'. And yes it's totally ridiculous, I've fit my entire head/forearm into a condom - if you can't fit into one, it almost certainly isn't going to fit into a woman either.

I've a little bit of sympathy with the OP. It's a pretty scary experience, and sometimes your brain can jump to the worst conclusions. I likewise have sympathy for the fact they've 'caught this' very early and have multiple options, but ultimately if the woman decides to keep it he will be a father and have to take on varying levels of responsibility (at minimum child support) which he doesn't feel ready for.

On the other hand, he didn't wrap it and therefore is reaping the consequences. Blaming her because her contraception isn't valid when he didn't bring any of his own. Likewise the concept of accusing her of trying to 'trap him', ditching her and running for the hills is just utterly callous and childish - however true this potential entrapment might have been.

It really is a shame, I've seen plenty of people who want nothing to do with a child, but feel they can turn up at 18/19 and "take them down to the pub for a drink with their dad". They are not a Dad, they are someone who contributed some DNA, nothing more.

First off, the Pill is like 99% effective - so, if 100 women take it correctly for a year, one of those women will become pregnant.