I got my FWB pregnant and she wants to keep it?

It's sad when when some women bring kids into the world to try and fix or even forge a relationship with an unwilling man. To me that is the epitome of desperation. The resultant children are nothing but pawns to them and likely to become victims of manipulation and psychological abuse themselves.

What's the point of using the pill if you still need condoms?

The earliest you can possibly do an accurate preg test is about 6 weeks after her last period

OHHHHHH mayne OP creampied it and just let the nuts hangin out. His pull out game weak mayyyyne.

https://youtu.be/mg-C8kTkHr8?t=379

OP, before you start booking your flight to Rio, are you sure she is actually pregnant? You said she thinks she is 'two weeks' pregnant. This doesn't really make sense. The earliest you can possibly do an accurate preg test is about 6 weeks after her last period, and that assumes her cycle is regular which it won't necessarily be if she's been taking the pill for a while.

Why not just calm down, wait a couple of weeks, and go to the doctor with her. Then you can start making proper decisions when you know what you're really dealing with.

And by the way, just because you dont want to be with her, that doesn't mean you won't want to be part of the child's life. You'd be surprised how people change when a baby is actually born. But that's a LONG way off yet.

Good luck.

I agree, but we have zero evidence that is the case here.

Ohhhh maynee you gotta practice that ****! But maybe the girl sent this emayo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LohkN9LUU6M

But the question is, who would even be testing that early?

Even if the child isn't meant to forge a relationship between the two, the child is still a pawn in this game because if she lied about her intent that she was on the pill then she has some sort of deceptive agenda, whether it involves the father - I mean sperm donor - or not.

Even if the child isn't meant to forge a relationship between the two, the child is still a pawn in this game because if she lied about her intent that she was on the pill then she has some sort of deceptive agenda, whether it involves the father - I mean sperm donor - or not.

Finally somebody talks some sense. She said she's TWO WEEKS pregnant? I mean, I get that there aren't that many fathers in here, but women with cycles should know better.

This information isn't 100% correct, however, as hCG can be detected in the urine by modern home pregnancy kits even before the next cycle is due to start, as early as 11 days after conception or three and a half weeks since the start of the last cycle.

But the question is, who would even be testing that early?

OP, go get some basic sex education. If her cycle starts on the first day of the month, she's fertile for a few days around the 14th. If she conceives, she wouldn't have the first big clue until the 28th assuming she's dead regular. She might be nervous, but would not rush out and buy a home pregnancy test that day, because cycles, even on the pill, aren't that regular. So she wouldn't even be testing until she'd been pregnant 3 weeks at the earliest.

Tell her to get a blood test from her doctor to confirm. Then accept responsibility for what you have done, regardless of who may have lied to whom. Even with a lie, you're responsible for your actions, and what's important isn't whether or not it's convenient for you to be responsible for your actions, but whether or not it's convenient for the child for you to ignore your responsibilities.

Though I suspect that the one lying isn't the hypothetical girlfriend. Because women with cycles and the men who live with them know better.

Maybe OP should try some step sister action YEAHhhhhhhhhh

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QIrXtZaW6GM

Once again, we have ZERO evidence she has done anything of the sort.

It is entirely possible she has been taking the pill consistently and took something that negated its effects (like certain antibiotics). It is also possible she missed a few and got unlucky. Neither of these indicate she's trying to force a relationship, simply that **** has happened and she's likely as terrified as the OP.

Where's the evidence that she lied about the pill?

Of course we don't have evidence as we don't know the girl personally and only she knows what she did or did not shove in her mouth (no pun intended!). But even if she 'missed a few' it's her own fault. Also if you are on another medication you know that it can interact with the pill and that you should use a condom in the meantime. I doubt she is that stupid but then again indeed we don't know.

What I will say is this is actually a two way dance and as much as yes the women should not bring the children into the world as pawns and meal tokens the young men need to be more careful too and not think with their little brains because it could cost them their entire future. I'm a woman so I have many choices available to me but the minute a man busts a load he has no rights or say so they have to be more smart about it if they don't want to be in this predicament.