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Is this list too much?

Must be:
Same religion (but not strict)
Same cultural heritage, aka language
Pure blooded
(Those are pretty much to appease my parents)

These are my own preferences, not necessary, but should tick a few of these boxes:
Share similar hobbies
Ambivert
Kind, caring etc
Good looks

The rest of my preferences essentially boil down to being based upon the above

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Original post by Anonymous
Must be:
Same religion (but not strict)
Same cultural heritage, aka language
Pure blooded
(Those are pretty much to appease my parents)

These are my own preferences, not necessary, but should tick a few of these boxes:
Share similar hobbies
Ambivert
Kind, caring etc
Good looks

The rest of my preferences essentially boil down to being based upon the above


What do you mean by "pure-blooded"?
Can you give a few characteristics of ambiverts?
To what extent do you mean "good looks"?

Then I'll pass judgement on the topic at hand.
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No YOUR list is not too much but if you fall for someone, say, of a different religion you shouldn't give up on a relationship because of what your parents want

You cannot help who you fall in love with, remember the person you fall in love with is in a relationship with you, not your parents
Original post by Anonymous
Must be:
Same religion (but not strict)
Same cultural heritage, aka language
Pure blooded
(Those are pretty much to appease my parents)

These are my own preferences, not necessary, but should tick a few of these boxes:
Share similar hobbies
Ambivert
Kind, caring etc
Good looks

The rest of my preferences essentially boil down to being based upon the above


I think your list is perfectly acceptable
No it's not, it's just preferences I guess. But that doesn't mean that are the characteristics you will settle for.
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Original post by XcitingStuart
What do you mean by "pure-blooded"?
Can you give a few characteristics of ambiverts?
To what extent do you mean "good looks"?

Then I'll pass judgement on the topic at hand.


A.k.a More or less the same race as me (with no mixing as far as they know)
By ambivert, I mean someone who is outgoing when in a group, but is completely fine with being alone and intimate. (That might not make much sense, but idk how else to say so)
Good looks as in healthy, i don't mind skinny or slightly overweight as long as they are healthy (so more in their best interests as opposed to a preference)
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Original post by loveleest
No it's not, it's just preferences I guess. But that doesn't mean that are the characteristics you will settle for.


Yeah. tbh as long as the person is kind and shares some similarites I'll be ok
Why are there so many lists going around? :lol:
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Original post by AfcFob
No YOUR list is not too much but if you fall for someone, say, of a different religion you shouldn't give up on a relationship because of what your parents want

You cannot help who you fall in love with, remember the person you fall in love with is in a relationship with you, not your parents


True, true.

Thanks for the advice!
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Original post by flyingpanda
Why are there so many lists going around? :lol:


Saw the other guys list and wondered if I was too superficial myself. Then I realised that I'm not nearly as picky as the other guy
Are you a muslim?

Because you should check out Muzzmatch - It's like a Tinder for Muslims
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Your list sounds perfectly fine to me.
But make sure that youre goong out with a girl because you like her, not because your parents want you to go out with her!
Original post by flyingpanda
Why are there so many lists going around? :lol:


People like being judged. :tongue:
Original post by Anonymous
Saw the other guys list and wondered if I was too superficial myself. Then I realised that I'm not nearly as picky as the other guy


Ahaha, you're not. There are only a few things, which pretty much everyone would probably agree with. :h:
Original post by Anonymous
Saw the other guys list and wondered if I was too superficial myself. Then I realised that I'm not nearly as picky as the other guy


Original post by Anonymous
Ahaha, you're not. There are only a few things, which pretty much everyone would probably agree with. :h:


Don't know why my post went Anon. :s-smilie:
What are your hobbies? Might be hard to find a guy who has the same hobbies..
Original post by FireFreezer77
Your list sounds perfectly fine to me.
But make sure that youre goong out with a girl because you like her, not because your parents want you to go out with her!


No, I'm not gonna go out with someone that my parents tell me to, I'm just saying that if I wanted to MARRY that girl, or introduce her to my parents those must have criteria should be met.
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Original post by Anonymous
True, true.

Thanks for the advice!


You're welcome
Can't take this list seriously when you say pure blooded. We in harry potter now or summet?
Original post by Lord Gaben
Are you a muslim?

Because you should check out Muzzmatch - It's like a Tinder for Muslims

I'm not Muslim, I'm Hindu, maybe there's one similar to it for Hindus?
Original post by Anonymous
What are your hobbies? Might be hard to find a guy who has the same hobbies..


I'm a straight guy btw. Hobbies like anime etc. She at least has to accept it lol

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