you walkover and start talking to a girl who is by standards out of there league it works every time and you're confident and that does a lot before anything else
(1) blonde hair - I am irrationally attracted to blondes (2) their smile (3) the way they carry themselves; confidence vs. insecurity - body language etc
1) Their dress sense (also how they smell so aftershave) 2) Their smile (so kind and caring personality) 3) Spanish or Arab (they are just such beautiful human beings)