I don't think his family help him with washing his clothes and he's too lazy to do everyday chores himself, so when he comes to stay mine he smells of body odour and my mum and her boyfriend pull me aside privately to complain. They don't want me to tell him that they think he smells as he will be offended, but whenever I ask him to take a shower and put on fresh clothes he moans! I even wash his clothes for him but he puts them on without showering! I don't understand why he doesn't care about personal hygiene, but we've been together 3 years and I love him a lot, so I'm not leaving him over it. How am I supposed to overcome this issue?