How to seduce a lesbian as a straight man

I had sex with my very gay friend at Uni, for funsies. Didn't make him any less gay, or me any less of a raging lesbo.

How was it for you and him? Did either of you like it?

It wasn't great. I think he enjoyed himself, because he hadn't had sex for a long time. But overall it was awkward and hilarious.

I've had sex with men where it has been enjoyable, but I really do think I'm predominantly emotionally, romantically and sexually compatible with women. In my experience, women tend to want to please their sexual partner as much as they want to please themselves. With men, I have often felt like they are just masturbating inside of me, and have zero interest in whether I am enjoying myself. So women tick all of my boxes, but if I fell for a man I wouldn't deny my feelings.

I had sex with my very gay friend at Uni, for funsies. Didn't make him any less gay, or me any less of a raging lesbo.

Erm, if he had sex with you then he's not really that much very gay

Erm, if he had sex with you then he's not really that much very gay

I can assure you he is incredibly gay.

Come on, it's not whom you have sex with that defines your sexuality.

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Then he must be a mutated version of gay because female body is a turn off for me.



So, a man can sleep with other men and still be straight?

Then he must be a mutated version of gay because female body is a turn off for me.



So, a man can sleep with other men and still be straight?

Then he must be a mutated version of gay because female body is a turn off for me.



So, a man can sleep with other men and still be straight?

It wasn't great. I think he enjoyed himself, because he hadn't had sex for a long time. But overall it was awkward and hilarious.

I've had sex with men where it has been enjoyable, but I really do think I'm predominantly emotionally, romantically and sexually compatible with women. In my experience, women tend to want to please their sexual partner as much as they want to please themselves. With men, I have often felt like they are just masturbating inside of me, and have zero interest in whether I am enjoying myself. So women tick all of my boxes, but if I fell for a man I wouldn't deny my feelings.

It's hard to remember how much I enjoyed having sex with men, as I haven't had sex with a man for over 3 years, and I hope that I don't have to again (unless, perhaps, I want to have children and my partner and I opt for a sperm donation, but want to do it the 'natural' way; seems unlikely, however). I don't hate men or sex with men; rather, I've been unfortunate enough to have sex with men who aren't very good at putting themselves second (even for a short while).

I've had 'gay feelings' since I was 11, and I do wonder if part of my having relationships with men/having sex with men was because I wanted to be straight, because my family are uncomfortable with me being with a woman (religious, elderly), and I didn't want them to reject such a big part of me. Having said that, at the time I didn't think "I'm doing this just so I can be straight", I was genuinely attracted to my two former male partners. But I find it hard to believe, now (not because they are unattractive, but because I wouldn't want to sleep with a man again). I don't want to rubbish the relationships I've had in the past with men, because they were special in a different way. I do think that I felt something was missing, which I don't feel with my (female) partner; is it because she ticks all of my boxes, or does her femaleness give her the edge over men who might possess her characteristics/androgynous looks? It's difficult to dismantle when you're in a relationship. Hindsight helps. My god I ramble. Hope you're interested if not, sorry!

Step 1.
Be a woman.

Step 2.
Look at step 1.

That entire article is dumb and pointless. A lesbian is a lesbian because she does not like men.
If a gay man cannot get into the pants of a straight man trying to get in the pants of lesbian then why would any guy write an article about it? lol

NB: I haven't read the article.

Some men have big egos and do not feel threatened by someone with a vagina. I learned this when women I knew had permission to sleep with me, even though they had a boyfriend. They were not permitted, however, to sleep with another man. I found this distasteful and insulting so discontinued the arrangement. A man who thinks he can turn someone is likely very arrogant and used to getting his own way.