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What should I do now?

Been chatting to a girl I like on fb messenger since April every couple of weeks.

Yday I asked her to add me on whatsapp and gave her my number. But she hasn't replied to that although she's been online.

Should I just leave it now and make no contact with her? Or wait a month or so before messaging her again?

I can't help but think if I did something wrong, since I've got no experience with this sort of stuff.

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Original post by Anonymous
Been chatting to a girl I like on fb messenger since April every couple of weeks.

Yday I asked her to add me on whatsapp and gave her my number. But she hasn't replied to that although she's been online.

Should I just leave it now and make no contact with her? Or wait a month or so before messaging her again?

I can't help but think if I did something wrong, since I've got no experience with this sort of stuff.


I think would text her again today and see if she replies or not
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Original post by emilyaves2000
I think would text her again today and see if she replies or not


Message her asking about adding me on whatsapp or something else?

I don't really feel like messaging her right now tbh.
Original post by Anonymous
Message her asking about adding me on whatsapp or something else?

I don't really feel like messaging her right now tbh.

oh sorry I misread the post
I would message he asking her how her day was
NO, DO NOT SEND HER ANOTHER TEXT.

Everyone has time to answer a message, whether it's a text, FaceBook, IM, etc...

She saw your message but chose, for whatever reason, not to answer.

WAIT UNTIL SHE GETS IN TOUCH WITH YOU.
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Original post by emilyaves2000
oh sorry I misread the post
I would message he asking her how her day was


Okay if she replies what does that mean?

Maybe I shouldn't have asked her to add me on whatsapp but our convos have been good so I thought we were cool so I asked.
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Original post by The Roast
NO, DO NOT SEND HER ANOTHER TEXT.

Everyone has time to answer a message, whether it's a text, FaceBook, IM, etc...

She saw your message but chose, for whatever reason, not to answer.

WAIT UNTIL SHE GETS IN TOUCH WITH YOU.


How long should I wait for her to get in touch with me?
Original post by Anonymous
How long should I wait for her to get in touch with me?


Until she gets in touch. This could be tomorrow, next week or even a month in the future.

Do not contact her until she does.
Original post by Anonymous
Okay if she replies what does that mean?

Maybe I shouldn't have asked her to add me on whatsapp but our convos have been good so I thought we were cool so I i guasked.


I guess it means she wants to talk to you.
you never know she might really like talking to you but she thinks she can get a bit annoying
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Could be some dodgy ****...facebook is full of weird people
Original post by The Roast
Until she gets in touch. This could be tomorrow, next week or even a month in the future.

Do not contact her until she does.


Do u think I did anything wrong by asking her to add me on whatsapp?
Original post by Anonymous
Been chatting to a girl I like on fb messenger since April every couple of weeks.

Yday I asked her to add me on whatsapp and gave her my number. But she hasn't replied to that although she's been online.

Should I just leave it now and make no contact with her? Or wait a month or so before messaging her again?

I can't help but think if I did something wrong, since I've got no experience with this sort of stuff.


are you that desperate that you had to make a post about it?
Original post by The Roast
Until she gets in touch. This could be tomorrow, next week or even a month in the future.

Do not contact her until she does.

Do you even know what a girl thinks about seeming as you ae a male
Original post by Anonymous
Do u think I did anything wrong by asking her to add me on whatsapp?


No.

Just relax, let her come to you.
Original post by ikhan94
Could be some dodgy ****...facebook is full of weird people


I've talked to her face to face as well.
Original post by theBranicAc
are you that desperate that you had to make a post about it?


I'm desperate for some advice as I don't have any experience with kinda stuff.
Original post by emilyaves2000
Do you even know what a girl thinks about seeming as you ae a male


Yes.
Original post by The Roast
No.

Just relax, let her come to you.


Okay I won't message her now. But if she doesn't message me back say after a month what should I do? Just leave it at that or message her?

I'm just a bit annoyed cos she has seen the message now.
Original post by Anonymous
Okay I won't message her now. But if she doesn't message me back say after a month what should I do? Just leave it at that or message her?

I'm just a bit annoyed cos she has seen the message now.


Even after a month you don't contact her. Just cut her off completely.

If she gets in touch then you can simply ask her out.


OK, if she's seen the message, she doesn't want to talk.
Original post by The Roast
Even after a month you don't contact her. Just cut her off completely.

If she gets in touch then you can simply ask her out.


OK, if she's seen the message, she doesn't want to talk.


I guess I should stop messaging her then :frown: thought it was going well tbh until I asked to add me on whatsapp which I didn't think to be a big deal.

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