Hi everyone,
I want to give you a summary first and then I will tell you about what my problems are. Maybe you guys can advise me a way out of this... (just to note here, English is not my native language)
I graduated last June and after endless job applications I managed to secure an interview, and then a second one for a finance office related job in a food manufacturing company where pay seemed a bit higher than average entry level jobs and they were offering study support (for becoming a qualified accountant), plus it was owned by an international firm, which all seemed exciting . But on the minus side the company was in the middle of nowhere. However, I decided to take the job as I was tired of seeking for jobs and started early December. For the first month they offered me a relocation assistance and at the second month I moved to a flat about 35-40 mins away from work by car but close to amenities.
After 5 months, I feel completely incompetent at my job. The first few months was OK as I was building up knowledge and getting to learn how everything operates. But because of my introverted nature and English being not my first language, I couldn't get to connect well with my co-workers. (their accent is unique to the area as well, which makes it harder to understand their unique words). I get along well with my neighbours, they are nice elderly people but you know, it's not like a mate where you can enjoy a pint and laugh to some stupid sh*t. So I feel lonely as well as I couldn't manage to make new friends.
It is a job that requires an understanding of manufacturing processes as my main responsibility is to provide product cost estimates for commercial evaluations. But there are no procedures and people are not so organised either!
Anyway, around my 3rd month, deadlines kick in regarding to a project and the information flow was not so organised and with the lack of adequate procedures for how things are done, I felt really stressed as all the pressure was on me and I think that's when all it started.
After that week I started to find it hard to leaved bed, hard to wake up and hard to concentrate. I feel like I am not the same person anymore. I used to catch details within things and now I can't notice details as I can't really concentrate on something. My memory is gone, I cannot even recall words, song names, movies .I feel empty-minded, I am shy as well and I don't know what to speak and say to people and keep on a conversation. I even feel like I forgot what I learned at uni.
I now feel I am an incompetent idiot and feels like I don't understand what's going on around myself.
Everyday seems the same, I come home I have got only few hours to cook something, maybe watch TV, talk to friends over the phone. and I go to bed around 11 and wake up 6:30 the other day. And it's the same story..
Its like I live to work rather than work to live!
All suggesting me I suffer from depression, and I feel so lonely.
In short, I think I don't like the area I moved to and I don't like the job. I also feel like I am home sick, I am away from my family as well, overseas.
I can't quit the job unless I secure another one but could't decide what I really want to do. Then I considered masters to help me get away from this lonely monotonous working life syndrome but couldn't decide on that as well...
Please help me find a way out this...