Muslims and sexual desires

Ok so i just want to know how do muslims deal with sexual desires ... As sex before marriage is not allowed ..especially in ramadan month how do u stay away from it????

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Reply 1

Sammi_K?

Don't have sex. It makes dealing with it 100x worse. Other than that masturbation is a good one. Accepting it as a human desire instead of considering sexual thoughts as a sin could help you not feel guilty and then think less about it because you are not as worried. When you are worried about something you think more about it .

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Original post by Sammi_K?

Lol much easier said than done especially for a guy

Keep yourself busy

The same way the millions of men in sexless non-muslim marriages deal with it.

You buy a shed and get some hobbies.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Ok so i just want to know how do muslims deal with sexual desires ... As sex before marriage is not allowed ..especially in ramadan month how do u stay away from it????

Masturbating?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Original post by Anonymous

Masturbating?

Masturbation is a harmful habbit especially for men

Reply 7

Elivercury

Original post by Anonymous

Masturbation is a harmful habbit especially for men

In what respect?

Reply 8

Anonymous #3

I can't really say much because I'm a woman with a serious masturbation problem but partly due to finding porn from a young age (4 yrs old) and being sexually assaulted prior to that. Just remember Allah is watching, that should put you right off :laugh:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Original post by Elivercury

In what respect?

It depletes u of energy and can cause erectile dysfunction in the long run

Reply 10

Elivercury

Original post by Anonymous

It depletes u of energy and can cause erectile dysfunction in the long run

I mean doing just about anything depletes your energy. Any link to back up that it causes erectile dysfunction? I've never heard of such a thing.

Reply 11

Anonymous #4

Original post by Anonymous

Man that's deep. Thats so young :frown:

. I know the feeling that it's very hard to stop though. I was taught about masturbation in year 6 sex ed for no reason and so i started from a young age. Very hard to stop something when its been engrained in your brain from a young age. Its literally an addiction.

Reply 12

fatima1998

i dont have any sexual desires :proud:

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Original post by fatima1998

i dont have any sexual desires :proud:

Ure a good girl thats why

Reply 14

Vav Sartrean Po

Original post by Anonymous

It depletes u of energy and can cause erectile dysfunction in the long run

That is so wrong...

Reply 15

fatima1998

Original post by Anonymous

Ure a good girl thats why

how do you know :erm:

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

Original post by Marshall Taylor

That is so wrong...

Lol mate masturbation once in a while is ok but if your not getting the real deal and are continously jackin off to porn chances are when the time comes to do the real deal u might struggle to get it up

Reply 17

Yafooly

Original post by fatima1998

how do you know :erm:

Don't lie!

I know you want my banana rama.

Reply 18

fatima1998

Original post by Yafooly

Don't lie!

I know you want my banana rama.

i'll get @SeanFM on ya :unimpressed:

Reply 19

Anonymous #1

Im not against any religion but this is bulls***... Why would your so called god not want you to have sex? When he was the one who sent us on this earth to f**k and reproduce?