Is it normal a straight guy to feel uneasy around homosexuality?

I just get this feeling whenever I see gays making out or whatever. I wouldn't say disgust, because that's a pretty vile way of describing love, I just guess it's because I'm straight that I feel this way..

1. Not by choice, again.

2. That would mean you like both. If you're trying to compare this to sexuality, that would make you bisexual.

3. Yes... and?

1. I don't dispute that... at all.

2. Trying is different from feeling. This is the distinction I am making and yes, you can know you're not attracted to something/someone before trying it. It is different with food products and so on. They're a weak comparison

3. ...

We will have to agree to disagree here. If you're truly 100% hetrosexual, you wouldn't even be able to get an erection when attempting to have sex with a guy. Let alone actually sleeping with them.. It's nothing to do with society vs the truth. To be able to allow yourself to sleep with someone of the same gender there must be at least some attraction. I know for sure that I simply couldn't sleep with the same gender. It's not a case of it being unlikely like in your case. it's that it won't happen. If a gay person still believed in their heart that they could sleep with women I don't think they're fully gay.

I could easily echo what you've said and say any guy that sleeps with another guy then claims they're straight is lying to themselves lol



And this is just a massive generalization. So much so that it's incorrect. If it was really anywhere remotely close to "all of science" then I wouldn't be here saying we don't have a definite answer. There's enough difference in opinion in the science world to say we aren't sure yet. Think about how many mental illnesses that the medical world has so little idea about. At the moment the best we can do is provide hormone pills and give therapy.

There's quite a few illneses where we could potentially use gene therapy to insert various alleles into cell nuclei in order to stop a disease since we know what that codes for. Off the top of my head I can think of cystic fibrosis. But with the brain? Nope.

Genetically, as far as I'm aware we know very little, The brain is incredibly complexed and constantly goes through not only chemical, but also physical changes when we learn new information. Maybe people might be born gay (I haven't actually said otherwise lol). But I wouldn't be surprised if in many years time when the brain is much better understood, we find out that it can be both.

Lastly, I've always wondered why "born gay or not" was heavily debated in the first place. Why would it matter in terms of gay rights or acceptance? I don't understand why people would think being able to choose invalidates anything or sets the LGBT movement back? It's not like being able to choose would mean discriminating against people who do choose is ok.

In reply to number 2, many people lead closeted lives where they aren't actually attracted to the gender they're with but stay together due to external reasons such as religion, family and a homophobic society. Someone could be homosexual but stay in heterosexual relatioships but if they only experience same-sex attraction then they would still be homosexual. Sexuality is about attraction not behaviour.

In reply to number 2, many people lead closeted lives where they aren't actually attracted to the gender they're with but stay together due to external reasons such as religion, family and a homophobic society. Someone could be homosexual but stay in heterosexual relatioships but if they only experience same-sex attraction then they would still be homosexual. Sexuality is about attraction not behaviour.

You shouldn't have even made this thread, tbh. You obviously can't control your thoughts and it's good that you support gay marriage, but as soon as you vocalise how you are "disgusted" by it, it no longer comes across as though you are respectful and tolerant. It seems rude, and yes - homophobic.

Having sex with men does not make you gay.

It doesn't make you straight either.

No straight man is going to have consensual sex with another man.

A guy has to like another guy to want to have sex with said guy, making him bisexual or full out gay.

It doesn't make you straight either.

No straight man is going to have consensual sex with another man.

A guy has to like another guy to want to have sex with said guy, making him bisexual or full out gay.

Not true. Sex = act. Sexual attraction = attraction, feeling, whatever. Not an action.

Sex and sexual attraction are intertwined.

If you're a guy who has sex with guys, it's likely you're attracted to guys, otherwise you wouldn't do it.

Plenty of straight men do gay for pay, and are those 'lesbians' you see in porn really lesbians?

What about the closet cases who have Hetero sex to kid themselves?

That they are but not absolutely connected.

The key word here is likely.

Why do I even bother.

Girls like seeing two guys kiss, so it balances it out.

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They do it for the pay, not the sensation/pleasure.........



Pretty sure they're in denial and I'm pretty sure they don't enjoy it as much.

I don't know, because you're wrong but want to prove a stupid point, maybe?

Exactly! Do people want me to be turned on my 2 guys kissing to "accept" the sexuality?

I do understand gay relationships though.

Girl + girl = turn on
guy + guy = disgust.

sounds like homophobia to me. You just wanna sound like you're not homophobic. But props to you for being for same sex marriage.