Having sex with a much younger girl

Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

Oh the irony.

Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

Trust me

For some reason my thread was closed, I just had some questions.

The girl is 19 and I am 27. She was a virgin before I entered.

We are both Indian and come from quite traditional Indian families.

I think she is absolutely beauty and I feel that I love her and her sex. I'm not using her or anything, I plan to stay with her for the long term.

Do people feel this is ok? Does it make any difference am that we are Indians?

What do you mean trust you, your response to my comment makes no sense

It's ironic because if you were old fashioned, having a large age gap would be more of a thing, not the opposite.

I'm guessing you haven't been too successful with the ladies and she's gonna be the best u get so don't ever let her go!

I really cannot see how it's wrong.
I mean it's completely legal and consensual by the sounds of it.

Lol age isn't just a number guys come on.
Call me old fashioned but I think you should see where the relationship can go before you go any further; because both of you are in very different stages of life; she's only just become an adult (legally) and maturity we don't know about since we don't know the girl. You're 27, probably looking to settle down with a woman, not a girl, of age. I just don't know what's going through your head really (not in the offensive way, I genuinely wonder what you're thinking), like does it even sound right to you to be having sex with a girl 8 years younger than you? When you we 5 her parents hadn't even had sex to make her yet and you were already walking and talking, just think about that

Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

I meant the slang connotation for trust me, as in I agree that what I said was ironic

Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

You've lost me.



Although I agree with the "Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct" bit, that's just incest, which I'm pretty sure is illegal, or at least I hope it is.

EDIT: Just realised @John55 said it first as well.

That's really weird to me. Yes it's completely legal, but what exactly do you have in common? You're both in completely different stages of your life, and it does ring some alarm bells imo. However, as it is legal, you can do whatever.

What alarm bells?

She's approaching final year of university. I am three years out of university. We both study similar subjects.

It's not really a world of difference.

Just because it's politically correct doesn't mean it's morally correct (in my book at least, but he's a different person so I guess his perspective is different)
I mean there's stories of guys who are intimately in love with their grandmothers and have had children with them, although both people are over 18 and are politically allowed to do whatever they want, does that even sound right to you? "I had a baby with my nan..."?

Yeah but you added the thing about incest should be illegal, so you added to my initial point...not sure I agree though, if it's two consenting adults.