Girlfriend wearing revealing clothes

Lol, the state of society today where people consider not letting your partner dress like a whore tantamount to an oppressive and controlling victorian relationship. Why beat around the bush and walk cap in hand like a beg saying 'oh it makes me uncomfortable so please don't wear that, it hurts my feelings' - tell her to stop dressing like a prodtitute and threaten to leave straight up if she continues to not give a crud.

To have tits n pussy on show when courting? says more about you, that. Not lady like & morally indefensible. He should dump her, it's whorish behaviour. She seeks attention from other men, ****gish behaviour.

Me, my girlfriend and a few friends went out the other night. I picked my girlfriends dress, she tried them on I picked the one I liked the most. Half way through the night she changed into a more revealing dress for no reason. During the night she got complements from other boys and it really upset me that I went home (I get really anxious aswell and uncomfortable in situations easily). My GF said that it was nothing to worry about, she said sorry for changing dresses from the one I picked and we moved on.

This weekend were going out again and she wants to wear the same dress. I don't know how I feel about this.

Should I be upset that she wants to wear a dress that upset me so much when other people were looking and commenting? I'm not the person to say you can't wear this or that, so I'm in a bit of a situation here.

Any positive constructive comments welcome.
Thank you.

I don't understand why all the girls in here seem to think that a dress is more important than this guys feelings. It's a dress ffs. And no it's not what the dress 'represents' before you say that. He's hardly controlling her, he just doesn't want to watch tons of guys hit on his girlfriend every night if she's deliberately bringing it on.

He's hardly going to physically force her into another dress so yes, in that regard, she can where whatever she wants but if they talk about this and she continues to ignore his feelings for a dress she has then that's a problem they'll have to deal with.

This makes no sense to me at all. Especially because you are going out together...

All of my friends who are in relationships wear the same types of clothes that they wore when single, I.e quite revealing. It's never even crossed their minds that their boyfriends would care. Because believe it or not they actually don't care. They don't think that because their girlfriend is showing some cleavage or leg, that their girlfriend is going to be unfaithful. Because that is irrational!

This reminds me of when I last went out actually, and my friend wore a tight low cut top, and wore a very padded, push up bra to emphasis the cleavage. Did her boyfriend care? No. In fact she said that he made a joke about how she is being a fraud or something.

The only guys who don't like it are insecure. And that is his problem, not the girls.

Me, my girlfriend and a few friends went out the other night. I picked my girlfriends dress, she tried them on I picked the one I liked the most. Half way through the night she changed into a more revealing dress for no reason.

This weekend were going out again and she wants to wear the same dress. I don't know how I feel about this.

This is true for relationships in which there is 100% trust, but if you're going out clubbing and your gf decides to put on her most revealing dress then you are wrong, the vast majority of guys will care. Its about respect, he expressed his feelings and yet she went against him twice which shows what she finds more important.

Guys are insecure because they don't want to lose the person they love which isn't really the problem. The problem is the girl who doesn't value his feelings..

If my boyfriend told me what I could or couldn't wear I'd tell him where the shove it.

By that logic should she wear a paper bag to "stop men hitting on her". Pretty women are pretty and will attract compliments.

As others have pointed out, it's unlikely she was wearing a burka when he first met her but is now suddenly wearing revealing outfits, she has likely always worn this and it has only become an issue because he has decided it is.

I agree, it's ridiculous. I even saw a woman with her ankles on display the other day! What a harlot.

What I really find sad is that in society today you still think you get to command what your partner wears. What one person considers revealing another might consider conservative, there is no universal truth, although even if there was it is still their decision to wear it. If you don't like it, don't date them.