Want her badly

Really like a girl at my college, I've known her since high school but different mates mean we were never too close except for interactions in lessons but now we're not even in them together.

She's my exact type and she's intelligent and motivated, I'm not really good looking but I'm so confident and motivated to ask her out. There's everything to gain, nothing to lose. I just can't make the chance I can't. I wanna bump into her not literally, have a conversation and ask her out over the summer. But I don't know how to engineer that opportunity. I have to do it in person. It's driving me crazy inside, and she'll never know how much I care for her even though she has no clue.

Really like a girl at my college, I've known her since high school but different mates mean we were never too close except for interactions in lessons but now we're not even in them together.

She's my exact type and she's intelligent and motivated, I'm not really good looking but I'm so confident and motivated to ask her out. There's everything to gain, nothing to lose. I just can't make the chance I can't. I wanna bump into her not literally, have a conversation and ask her out over the summer. But I don't know how to engineer that opportunity. I have to do it in person. It's driving me crazy inside, and she'll never know how much I care for her even though she has no clue.

Really like a girl at my college, I've known her since high school but different mates mean we were never too close except for interactions in lessons but now we're not even in them together.

She's my exact type and she's intelligent and motivated, I'm not really good looking but I'm so confident and motivated to ask her out. There's everything to gain, nothing to lose. I just can't make the chance I can't. I wanna bump into her not literally, have a conversation and ask her out over the summer. But I don't know how to engineer that opportunity. I have to do it in person. It's driving me crazy inside, and she'll never know how much I care for her even though she has no clue.

First thing's first, if you do feel ready to take the plunge and ask her out, act natural. Trying to engineer an opportunity may make it look artificial to her, and possibly a sick joke. If you have any mutual friend, then use them to tell whether she'd be interested in any relationship and that way it may save you any awkward rejection. If you don't, then befriend a few of them and at the same time, just be more outgoing to her than normal. Always helps for peer group comments that are positive about you for a girl to start thinking about you. And finally, make the most of any common interests/hobbies/music preferences and maybe push your way into a date/semi-date through that way.

Above all, banish negativity like being "not all that good-looking" as being positive is the best way and don't force an opportunity to tell her how you really feel, let it come natural.

So find her, say hey, ask her what's up, find out her plans for the summer, and tell her "we should hang out", then gauge her reaction. Simples

Really like a girl at my college, I've known her since high school but different mates mean we were never too close except for interactions in lessons but now we're not even in them together.

She's my exact type and she's intelligent and motivated, I'm not really good looking but I'm so confident and motivated to ask her out. There's everything to gain, nothing to lose. I just can't make the chance I can't. I wanna bump into her not literally, have a conversation and ask her out over the summer. But I don't know how to engineer that opportunity. I have to do it in person. It's driving me crazy inside, and she'll never know how much I care for her even though she has no clue.

I've spent 2 years waiting for it to come naturally though and it never has. Given we're 17 now and going off to uni next year the clock is ticking for me to say something. No matter the response I'm happy, but I'll just be elated if she says yes. I'd rather get rejected than to live with the regret of saying nothing at all.

I've spent 2 years waiting for it to come naturally though and it never has. Given we're 17 now and going off to uni next year the clock is ticking for me to say something. No matter the response I'm happy, but I'll just be elated if she says yes. I'd rather get rejected than to live with the regret of saying nothing at all.

when i was in college a guy who had seen me around and liked me told a girl in his class who was also in mine. i barely knew her but she came up to me and told me he liked me and wanted to talk to me so i just told her to tell him come say hi when he sees me. then that lunch i was sat with a few friends and he came over and said his name and asked if he could speak to me, was a lil awkward but still super sweet so maybe try find someone in your class who knows her? or just approach her when she's with friends and ask to talk, might seem awkward but the friends will usually find it sweet so