Just discovered my girlfriend used to be a man

We are all female before we are born, does it matter what gender we used to be?

We are all female before we are born, does it matter what gender we used to be?

If a girl insists on always turning off the lights then she's either British and from a respectable family, of the old skool, or else (formerly) a man

I'm having a hard time believing this:
Her brother has told you nothing until now.
He only told you now because he was drunk.
It's one think go spill secrets in a drunken state, it's another to take it upon himself to go all the way to her house to make her "confess", when before this he had no interest in spilling her secret.

It just doesn't add up.

if on the off chance this isnt bait:

wow, that was terrible of you! you could not have handled that much worse. she literally told you that she felt like killing herself and you thought that it was an appropriate time to call her a freak and dump her? jesus. she deserves better than you.

as to the idea of "i had the right to know/she should have told me": why??? literally what difference does it make. it doesnt matter if someone is not the same gender now as they were born as. they are the gender they identify with now. the past is irrelevent. the only time you would even remotely need to know is if youre having sex (if they havent transitioned) or if youre trying to conceive (if they have).
thinking negatively of her because shes trans is undeniably transphobic.

seriously, youre a ****, op.

LOL wtf, he thought it was a real women and it wasn't, she or whatever it identifies as, because tbh I will never see trans as real women, should have told him. He's not in the wrong, think how emotionally ****ed up he is thinking all that he knew about his gf is built on a massive lie.

Alright so me and my girlfriend has been together now for over two years but only recently had I discovered she used to be a man.

I was in the bar with her brother and we were getting drunk and when he is drunk he has a tendency to tell the truth, which is exactly what he did. He asked me 'are you gay' and when I replied 'no', he then said 'then why are you dating a former guy'. I thought this was a joke until he went into further detail and I left and confronted my girlfriend, who at first lied until her brother came around and forced her to admit it before leaving. My girlfriend explained that she was unhappy and thought about killing herself, which was when she began to cry. I called her a 'freak' before adding our relationship was over and left her house.

Its now been two weeks and though our relationship is truly broken and it makes me feel sick to think of her as a man, I still care.

oh come on this must be bait no one can be this stupid