What's the point?

What's the point of a relationship?

It's over glamorised fam.

Relationships are just bleak and depressing. The constant ups and downs, personality clash,the boring and lifeless conversations, dealing with their bad days when they aren't "in the mood" and having to spend so much money on taxi fares and meals. When in reality the end result is what we all really want to do, is pardon my French but get laid!!

Nothing more, everything else is a nuisance and a burden.

Nah, it's not worth it bruv. :sigh:

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innit fam

Agreed.

Which is why I am planning to stay alone forever and work on more important things :h:

Reply 3

Man's wavey

Original post by loveleest

Agreed.

Which is why I am planning to stay alone forever and work on more important things :h:

Good decision.

It looks good from the outside looking in.

But once you actually step in, it's a completely different story.

Reply 4

loveleest

Original post by Man's wavey

Good decision.

It looks good from the outside looking in.

But once you actually step in, it's a completely different story.

I know but everyone thinks I am a freak for saying this. :K:

Oh well, at least I know my life is going to be stress-free. I can go to bed without thinking someone is cheating on me :biggrin:

Reply 5

Man's wavey

Original post by loveleest

I know but everyone thinks I am a freak for saying this. :K:

Oh well, at least I know my life is going to be stress-free. I can go to bed without thinking someone is cheating on me :biggrin:

I know right.

Do people really call you a "freak"?

This society stresses youths to be in a "relationship", and you are seen as an "outsider or "weird" if you aren't in one by a certain age.

But I was more at peace and stress free when I was "all alone".

Reply 6

FrenchUnicorn

Original post by Man's wavey

pardon my French

Is that an actual expression ? :nyan:

Reply 7

loveleest

Original post by Man's wavey

Yes, unfortunately :frown:

I told my best friend I was planning to stay single (I think anyway) and not have any kids and she called me a freak/weirdo :frown:

Now I avoid bringing up the convo.

I've actually been single all my life and so far it's fantastic. I see no reason to ruin my life my getting into a relationship :smile:

It's peaceful being single.

Reply 8

Man's wavey

Original post by loveleest

Yes, unfortunately :frown:

I told my best friend I was planning to stay single (I think anyway) and not have any kids and she called me a freak/weirdo :frown:

Now I avoid bringing up the convo.

I've actually been single all my life and so far it's fantastic. I see no reason to ruin my life my getting into a relationship :smile:

It's peaceful being single.

I blame my raging hormones.! :cry2:

So you are right to remain single, this is why I am on TSR right now. I am trying to escape.

Are you asexual?

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Reply 9

Man's wavey

Original post by FrenchUnicorn

Is that an actual expression ? :nyan:

It's a nice way of saying "sorry but I am about to say a rude word for all you sensitive Frenchies". :wink:

Jk.

Reply 10

gapyear2018

Original post by loveleest

Agreed.

Which is why I am planning to stay alone forever and work on more important things :h:

Do you want children?

Reply 11

loveleest

Original post by Man's wavey

I blame my raging hormones.! :cry2:

So you are right to remain single, this is why I am on TSR right now. I am trying to escape.

Are you asexual?

I think if that's the main issue for you, you can find other ways...dw

I have been asked this a few times lol, I don't even think I am asexual I just think I am very frigid though.

Reply 12

FrenchUnicorn

Original post by Man's wavey

It's a nice way of saying "sorry but I am about to say a rude word for all you sensitive Frenchies". :wink:

Jk.

No I am genuinely wondering, was that an expression people use ? Just curious ^^

Reply 13

Ciel.

Original post by Man's wavey

Aww I genuinely feel bad for you. Looks like you've never had a real bond with your partner. It's an amazing thing. Sometimes it doesn't even involve sex! Sucks to be you.

Reply 14

loveleest

Original post by ScienceFantatic

Do you want children?

never ever never ever.
I would love to adopt a few kids though.

Reply 15

Man's wavey

Original post by Ciel.

Aww I genuinely feel bad for you. Looks like you've never had a real bond with your partner. It's an amazing thing. Sometimes it doesn't even involve sex! Sucks to be you.

Yeah you are right, I haven't.

All my relationships have been short lived and flopped.

I can tell you are in a great relationship, well then I can easily say that I envy you.

Reply 16

Another

Original post by loveleest

I've actually been single all my life and so far it's fantastic. I see no reason to ruin my life my getting into a relationship :smile:

It's peaceful being single.

Finally, another girl that thinks this way!

I'll adopt the result of my niece's teen pregnancy when I'm in my 40's

Reply 17

Ciel.

Original post by Man's wavey

Yeah you are right, I haven't.

All my relationships have been short lived and flopped.

I can tell you are in a great relationship, well then I can easily say that I envy you.