Guys, do you mind if a girl is not the motherly type?

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I do. In fact, it's something of a deal breaker for me.

That said, I'd hazard a guess that most wouldn't mind. :holmes:

Reply 21

Anonymous #1

Ok thanks, makes sense that you would want someone with similar interests.

Reply 22

Anonymous #1

Original post by Hydeman

I do. In fact, it's something of a deal breaker for me.

That said, I'd hazard a guess that most wouldn't mind. :holmes:

I dont mean that she'd never make a sandwich, just that her hobby was in sports rather than cooking/housework.

Reply 23

redbluedex

Original post by Esoteric-

So you are basically asking if guys will mind the fact that you're not very feminine?.....I suspect only men who are attracted to females will have an issue with it.

So cooking, making sandwiches and doing laundry are feminine things to do? Says who? And you're generalising what all men find attractive? What, have you done a survey or something?

Reply 24

Esoteric-

Original post by redbluedex

So cooking, making sandwiches and doing laundry are feminine things to do? Says who? And you're generalising what all men find attractive? What, have you done a survey or something?

lol youu should be mad at OP. She's a woman but she's the one that's demeaned and trivialised her own gender, basically saying that all women are good for / interested in, is cooking, cleaning and other domestic pursuits.

Reply 25

troubadour.

Original post by Anonymous

I dont mean that she'd never make a sandwich, just that her hobby was in sports rather than cooking/housework.

Hmm, I guess I could live with it, though as another user has said, it might be kinda difficult from the point of view of common interests - I don't play/care about sports at all. :s-smilie:

Anyway, it would probably depend on the individual girl, I think. My initial answer was based primarily on my natural affinity for the caring, motherly types.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 26

redbluedex

Original post by Esoteric-

I only read OPs first post which seemed fine. You're just being blatantly ignorant.

Reply 27

Esoteric-

Original post by redbluedex

I only read OPs first post which seemed fine. You're just being blatantly ignorant.

Translation: I'm a woman and a feminist. You have a penis. Everything you say is wrong. Everything I say is right.

lol, you are so see-through

Reply 28

Anonymous #1

Original post by Esoteric-

i dont think anyone enjoys being stuck at home cooking and cleaning, man or woman. Also unless you are married, have kids and have chosen to be a housewife, no one should expect you to spend your days at home cooking and cleaning.

There's nothing wrong with you liking sports, its just your post comes across as you kinda saying "I dont like typical girl stuff. will guys still like me?"

Well girls like different things so its hard to pinpoint what typical girl stuff is. These days both genders seem to have a wider more overlapping range of interests

Reply 29

redbluedex

Original post by Esoteric-

Translation: I'm a woman and a feminist. You have a penis. Everything you say is wrong. Everything I say is right.

lol, you are so see-through

So see through you missed the fact that I'm a guy? :lol:

Reply 30

Andy98

I get the feeling she'd learn if she lived with me - I'm **** at those things :rofl:

Reply 31

Crazycatguy

Original post by Esoteric-

lols you really are in your own world.

I really hope you dont end up as a crazy old cat lady

A crazy cat lady is my ideal woman! <3

I wouldn't go for a woman who wasn't motherly towards cats, she would need to be able to cook as I want to cook with her and for her, she HAS to love cats, that becomes first! <3

Reply 32

DauntlessOne

I wouldn't want to have a kid with her, but no, it's not the end of the world, people's attitudes change over time.

Reply 33

DauntlessOne

Original post by redbluedex

So see through you missed the fact that I'm a guy? :lol:

Your profile picture would say otherwise 😄

Reply 34

redbluedex

Original post by DauntlessOne

Your profile picture would say otherwise 😄

I just have a young face, guess it's a little girly!

Reply 35

spv

I wouldn't marry a girl that didn't put her career towards the top of her priorities along with her family and myself.
I want to be a power couple, but hope that one day she'd consider raising a family with me...

Reply 36

PrincessBO$$

i'm a girl and i doubt i will find a guy who acts fatherly untill he actually becomes a father. A lot of girls don't see motherly but they become motherly when they r a mother :smile:

Reply 37

troubadour.

Original post by PrincessBO$$

i'm a girl and i doubt i will find a guy who acts fatherly untill he actually becomes a father. A lot of girls don't see motherly but they become motherly when they r a mother :smile: