There are many different types of mental disorders, and guess what, there are many people who suffer from mental disorders yet they keep this to themselves (I am one of these people). I have come across many people who treat others like **** and blame it on their disorder, which is just unacceptable. If they are able to function adequately on a day to day basis then they can't just blame all of their actions on the disorder. I have also come across people who use mental disorders as a way to seek attention (even though they have not went to see a doctor and be diagnosed with the disorder, they just claim to have all the symptoms). Are people who go around, telling everyone they want to die, really suicidal? From my own experience I have noticed that those who are truly suicidal, keep it to themselves, as they do not want to be helped. Those who tell everyone they want to die mainly do it for attention. I've came across many people like that, ones who would even fake the fact that they are missing, pretend someone found their phone and text their friends as if they were someone else, to get attention. When the truth comes out they throw a tantrum. People who suffer from mental disorders, and are aware of it, tend to get help. This way, even though the disorder still affects them, they have no need to blame every single one of their actions on the disorder. I'd say you have just ended up with the wrong group of people, people who want attention and tend to guilt trip others.