Where have all the romantic, intelligent, home-girls gone?

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Original post by Brokeman

Ive seen some lovely romantic home-women in England. They do be out there. You just need to go into the real world and travel and see for yourself.

These lovely romantic sensible women tend to be found in quality areas, places that have good morals, financially good areas, families that have good morals, etc etc.
Ive seen some lovely sensible women out there with good manners and attractive too. Seen them in Coventry offices, university, work institutions, on the train and in shops too.

You are probably right. I'm sure a lot of the girls I'm at university with atm will not behave the same as they do now in 10 years time when they are 30 and that's when I will have less trouble finding a woman. In the meantime though I am not content! So the search shall continue.

no more dry spells

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Original post by StationToStation

And I can't find a guy who appreciates those qualities in me. Where have all of YOU gone?

Leeds :P

Original post by Goaded

You must just be looking in the wrong places becsuse I know lots of girls like this. I know a girl perfect for you actually :u:

Advice would be appreciated.

Advice from you grizzled and experienced wise women.

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user 42005

Original post by perspectives

maybe that's your answer, we are all too young.
Also somebody needs to be asking where all the intelligent guys my age are? They're seriously all dumb and/or dress bad.

We do exist :redface:

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math42

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Original post by perspectives

maybe that's your answer, we are all too young.
Also somebody needs to be asking where all the intelligent guys my age are? They're seriously all dumb and/or dress bad.

Maybe intelligent guys can only dress badly..

Reply 46

Serine Soul

Sorry I've been a bit busy stressing but here I am!

I'm romantic, fairly intelligent and a home-girl :h:

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username1539513

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Original post by TorpidPhil

Well. I find it very difficult personally to find that correct sort of person at university. And libraries are incredibly awkward places to try and befriend strangers in. With regards to martial art clubs, I've been doing martial arts for a very long time but I have to say I struggle to find homely, romantic, intelligent sorts at martial arts clubs hahahaha. Without being overly stereotypical that's my totally unscientific anecdotal analysis of them :P

I'm gonna go wild talking to strangers in lectures when I return to uni for my third year if I am not satisfied by then, however, I've got a year out from uni until then and don't really want to be single for that time.

And concerning TSR the actual chance of someone being close to me in this vast country is rather low. It has happened before though. Twice actually. So it's possible.

Well, unless you want a religious type you might struggle. I know quite a few non religious girls who match your description

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Original post by Serine Soul

Sorry I've been a bit busy stressing but here I am!

I'm romantic, fairly intelligent and a home-girl :h:

I've actually noticed quite a few of your posts before. You're cool. And you're 'north' lol. Whatever that means :P

Aww and you're even humble enough to merely say you are "fairly intelligent".

That sounded paradoxical. I might struggle unless I settle for a religion type, yet you know 'quite a few' people like that who are not religious types? Why do you know them and I don't then???

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Serine Soul

Original post by TorpidPhil

I've actually noticed quite a few of your posts before. You're cool. And you're 'north' lol. Whatever that means :P

Aww and you're even humble enough to merely say you are "fairly intelligent".

It means I'm from the North of England :lol:

And haha, sarcasm? I felt a bit too cocky saying 'fairly intelligent' but I thought I'd match your title :yes:

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username1539513

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Original post by TorpidPhil

I've actually noticed quite a few of your posts before. You're cool. And you're 'north' lol. Whatever that means :P

Aww and you're even humble enough to merely say you are "fairly intelligent".

That sounded paradoxical. I might struggle unless I settle for a religion type, yet you know 'quite a few' people like that who are not religious types? Why do you know them and I don't then???

I'm just saying, generally speaking, religious girls are less likely to drink and be promiscuous than non religious girls. There are non religious girls who match at least some of what you want but most of the ones at uni like to do what you don't and they are probably feminists in some respects too. Go and import a nice asian lady

Reply 51

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Original post by Serine Soul

It means I'm from the North of England :lol:

And haha, sarcasm? I felt a bit too cocky saying 'fairly intelligent' but I thought I'd match your title :yes:

Thank you for that, although I actually gathered that much myself :P

I meant, the North of England is a very large area, really, so it could mean you are hours and hours away, or perhaps a few streets away. As ridiculous as that sounds it has happened before! Unlikely to happen again though (although they are independent events, I know).

And no, not sarcasm. Humility is never a bad thing broadly. So long as it isn't actually symbolic for insecurities. Even then, I find myself good at scrubbing away insecurities. Ooo I'm so humble.

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Looool.

Yeah, you know what's up AngryRedhead. You know what's up.

I will have little issue when I'm a tad older, a tad richer and a tad more independent because then I'll be able to drag back a woman from Singapore. Or uhh. Just move to Singapore... But in the meantime... Cuddles and extras ftw?

Oh and yeah, you definitely are right - it is not merely coincidence that I find myself disproportionately attracted to non-white girls...

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Vav Sartrean Po

Original post by millieconfused

thank you supreme gentleman

Reply 54

Millieconfused

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Original post by Marshall Taylor

thank you supreme gentleman

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PrincessBO$$

Original post by Serine Soul

Sorry I've been a bit busy stressing but here I am!

I'm romantic, fairly intelligent and a home-girl :h:

@Serine Sоul is thirsty :drool:

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Original post by PrincessBO$$

@Serine Sоul is thirsty :drool:

We're all on TSR.

90% of us are thirsty 90% of our lives haha.

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Also, @Little Popcorns - my vernacular really epitomises street, does it not? :colonhash:

Reply 57

Madgiddypig

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I have similar trouble with guys xD I'm sure as people get older there'll be more mature people who fit what you're looking for?

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PrincessBO$$

Original post by TorpidPhil

We're all on TSR.

90% of us are thirsty 90% of our lives haha.

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Also, @Little Popcorns - my vernacular really epitomises street, does it not? :colonhash:

i agree the thirstiest is @RobML Sorry for the tag bro :u:

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