Apologies if this posts twice but I lost connection when posting the first time so thought I would post again.
I met a guy back in March and had sex with him 3 times on a very casual basis. At the beginning of May he 'ghosted' on me. I found out I was pregnant and knew instantly I would have an abortion- the procedure was fine and I'm so relieved. I decided not to tell him I was pregnant because it seemed pointless and irrelevant. I told my parents (unavoidable due to their professional access to medical records), my uni friends and a few friends from our community (both me and the guy in question are Jewish, although he doesn't know the fellow Jews I told).
On Monday he messaged me out of the blue asking if I would like to go to his house for 'some fun'. I replied saying I can't do tonight but can do Tuesday night. Anyway, he messaged me on Tuesday asking what time I was coming over. I replied with 'tbh I've had a termination since I last saw you (it was a product of our last meeting, I genuinely don't know how it happened) and although I feel 100% fine in myself I'm still feeling very easily exhausted (bizarre considering I'm usually an insomniac)' I then sent some Beyoncé parodies which I found funny.
He replied with 'oh my! I'm pleased you're ok! Haha that is funny lol'
I asked him how he is and explained that the only people who know are my parents, my uni friends and a few fellow Jewish friends who I trust implicitly and know they haven't told anyone.
He's read the messages and hasn't replied!
Why do you think he hasn't replied?! I find it really rude tbh