Word of advice for "shy" people

Don't ****ing let someone you're attracted to or getting to know, know that you are shy and oh so nervous or intimidated. It makes the other really ****ing nervous, just sit there and be shy no need to express it.

On another note .....

Also, guys stop lying about your shy when your the one who had the courage to approach the woman in the first place. We can see right through that game, you ain't making no one feel special nice try.

(edited 7 years ago)

Reply 1

SayoniRoy

10

The world isn't so bad.
No you are not boring.
People won't always care about your opinion and honestly that shouldn't matter.

Reply 2

username155270

OP

15

Original post by SayoniRoy

The world isn't so bad.
No you are not boring.
People won't always care about your opinion and honestly that shouldn't matter.

Is this advice for shy people?

Reply 3

SayoniRoy

10

Original post by xobeauty

Is this advice for shy people?

Don't know if it is for a shy person or not. This is what I feel I would tell myself. I am really shy in real life.

Reply 4

username155270

OP

15

" shy" people man they piss all over my cornflakes all the time. Especially the boy ones.

But in general since I was a kid shy people make me Nervous esp when they are shy around certain people and not others.

Reply 5

shawn_o1

21

do you mean those who pretend to be shy just to get your attention OP? or those who really are shy? because attitudes like yours aren't helping anyone

Reply 6

username155270

OP

15

Original post by shawn_o1

do you mean those who pretend to be shy just to get your attention OP? or those who really are shy? because attitudes like yours aren't helping anyone

I'm talking about both.

No snarkyness- if you are really concerned about helping others ( which I'm not its more of a rant) you should go ahead and make your own thread about it. :smile:

Reply 7

TaintedLight

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Original post by xobeauty

Don't ****ing let someone you're attracted to or getting to know, know that you are shy and oh so nervous or intimidated. It makes the other really ****ing nervous, just sit there and be shy no need to express it.

On another note .....

Also, guys stop lying about your shy when your the one who had the courage to approach the woman in the first place. We can see right through that game, you ain't making no one feel special nice try.

Salty af

Reply 8

username155270

OP

15

Original post by TaintedLight

Salty af

Very good. Good observation captain obvious.

Reply 9

Nim_123

14

Wow, you really have something against shy people.

I kinda get it, I mean, I started a all girls sixth form but went to a mixed high so have guy friends and I don't really get shy around them, but some of these girls barely speak to guys as are too shy in front of them. Which i struggle to understand.

Though, I do t think being loud is really all that amazing either.

Everyone

Shyness is nice, but shyness can stop you, from doing all the things in life you'd like to...

Reply 12

pewdiepig

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what is the point of this post lol

Reply 13

fatima1998

19

Looks like the OP had an experience which was not pleasent :K:

Reply 14

Eriasu

9

Original post by xobeauty

Don't ****ing let someone you're attracted to or getting to know, know that you are shy and oh so nervous or intimidated. It makes the other really ****ing nervous, just sit there and be shy no need to express it.

On another note .....

Also, guys stop lying about your shy when your the one who had the courage to approach the woman in the first place. We can see right through that game, you ain't making no one feel special nice try.

"Stop lying"? Guys are shy too but some take the time to build up the courage to approach someone they like because if they don't then they know they'll regret it.

It took me 4 to 5 weeks to actually build the courage to approach a girl I liked. Who the hell lies about being shy? Has shyness become attractive or something?

Reply 15

Laurasaur

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Original post by Eriasu

"Stop lying"? Guys are shy too but some take the time to build up the courage to approach someone they like because if they don't then they know they'll regret it.

It took me 4 to 5 weeks to actually build the courage to approach a girl I liked. Who the hell lies about being shy? Has shyness become attractive or something?

Shyness is seen as cute because it makes someone appear more vulnerable. I know, it's stupid.

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Reply 16

Laurasaur

14

Original post by xobeauty

Don't ****ing let someone you're attracted to or getting to know, know that you are shy and oh so nervous or intimidated. It makes the other really ****ing nervous, just sit there and be shy no need to express it.

Other people being shy makes you nervous?! What's so difficult about being sympathetic and kind to put them at ease?