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Going to see escort but really have no choice. What would you do?

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Go for it mate

Also escorts are not prostitutes for Christ sake :L

Reply 22

Asolare

If you wanna it's your choice, but it's a silly choice. There's more to life than shagging so1.

Reply 23

emobambam

Original post by Jay_Cartwright

Don't, if you do this then you will only become more unattractive to women.

Imagine if you do meet a girl in the future, she may leave you if she finds out.

Just keep using your hand.

unless this guy has a really big mouth and guilty conscience how is a future girlfriend going to find out about this. Don't tell anybody in your life that you've done this. No matter what theyll judge you and look down upon you.

Reply 24

emobambam

Original post by neal95

Also escorts are not prostitutes for Christ sake :L

an escort is a prostitute. She just gets more money. An escort is just a high-class prostitute. You are paying an escort money for her attention.that's a prostitute

Reply 25

username1177050

Original post by emobambam

an escort is a prostitute. She just gets more money. An escort is just a high-class prostitute. You are paying an escort money for her attention.that's a prostitute

Depends really, your not really soliciting unless your standing on a street corner tbh. I disagree. Escort is escort especially if they advertise Incall services. Prostitutes are prostitutes....

Reply 26

username1726117

Original post by fermat1324

He should go back to uni. If he does "better bring his wellies, cos he'll be knee deep in clunge!"

If there's one thing I've learned at uni, it's that sex is not available to everyone despite what people commonly think.

Reply 27

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Original post by LavenderBlueSky88

If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*

I've always said this, I wouldn't care if someone lost their virginity the normal way at a very late age, however I would feel uncomfortable knowing that they paid for sex, especially for their first time.

Reply 28

Ella-keturah

Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.

Reply 29

Jay_Cartwright

Original post by Ella-keturah

Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.

EVen if they regret immensely and try to live a different life now?

Reply 30

fermat1324

Original post by Ella-keturah

Up to you, but do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't even like you? I definitely wouldn't be with someone who had paid for sex, I wouldn't care if they were a virgin though.

are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?

Reply 31

username1726117

Original post by fermat1324

are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?

*looks at username*
*looks at avatar*

Nah, couldn't possibly be.

Reply 32

fermat1324

haha i realised my stupidity afterwards lol when i looked at her profile...i'm a dumbass

i think i'll punish myself by having evidence of it on the internet lol

Reply 33

fermat1324

Original post by LavenderBlueSky88

If I met a guy I'd rather hear he lost his virginity in his 20s than he paid for it with a prostitute at a younger age. Just sayin'.*

what if he lost it in his 30s or 40s?

Reply 34

username1726117

Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes

however I would feel uncomfortable knowing that they paid for sex, especially for their first time.

...but for some reason it's the only way they can get sex?

Whilst you're all out having a good time and getting laid whenever you feel like it, there are those of us that can't get sex. Why should some people miss out on these experiences when they are younger?

Up to OP what he does. I won't judge him. It's up to him to decide whether or not it's worth seeing an escort or waiting it out to see if a girl does come along.

Reply 35

Ella-keturah

Original post by Jay_Cartwright

EVen if they regret immensely and try to live a different life now?

Hmm I doubt it. Would mean they view sex differently to me.

Original post by fermat1324

are you keturah? were you banned or suttin?

Forgot my password.

Reply 36

LavenderBlueSky88

Original post by fermat1324

what if he lost it in his 30s or 40s?

still would rather that than see an escort.

Besides, losing it to an escort wouldn't necessarily mean he had ever done it again - he would probably still be just as inexperienced so it really wouldn't make much difference. I'd rather have plain old inexperienced than inexperienced and seedy thanks.*

Reply 37

999tigger

Original post by Anonymous

Hi

So I've come to the decision at least for the time being that I'll visit an escort regularly because quite frankly women that I find attractive will simply not give me a chance. Tried everything, thrown a lot of money away trying to do it the normal way.

Basically my childhood was dreadful and I was psychologically abused and bullied for years when I was growing up. This has meant that now as an adult I feel defective as a human being. I simply cannot change the past and I've thrown thousands of pounds at trying to recover from past events.

I'd consider myself a physically attractive male. I have a good job and I'm intelligent but I'm simply not attractive to some women when it comes to my personality.

What would you do in my situation?

Do it if you wnat, but I dont see it really solving your issues. It may deal with part of the physical urges, but it could damage your self worth and how you realte to women i.e it could mess you up even more.

If it were me, then I would want to heal and de traumatise myself. I appreciate you can't.

It isnt about changing the past, part of it is working your way through it, understanding, coming to terms and learning from it, then being able to define your future.

Reply 38

TheonlyMrsHolmes

Well to me I often wonder if prostitutes/ escorts actually enjoy the sex, or feel the need to do sex work to pay something off, or perhaps someone is making them, I don't know but to know someone I like or am interested in has paid for this makes me uncomfortable.