Not someone 350lbs+ because if they're like that then it means im their carer, dont mean to sound harsh but I've got things I need to do and I wouldn't be able to because I'd be constantly looking after them.
My entire pay packet would be spent renovating the house because normal door frames are too small, the bathroom would need to be bigger. We'd need a stairlift or we'd have to have the bedroom downstairs.
They often need breathing apparatus. When they fall over I cant get them up by myself and when they do get ill, which is more frequently than most people we need to hire a crane to take off the roof and a full fire crew to lift them out.
And then the doctors will say the exact same thing they did last time: that my spouse has x amount of years left, that they had several heart attacks and a couple of strokes, that they landed in such a way that they are now paralysed because of their weight, that they need to go on a diet, that I'm responsible for their eating habits, that they've got some sort of fungi growing under their flabs of fat, that their muscles and bones have deteriorated to such a degree that a 98yr old woman with arthritis is in far better shape.
I cant do that.
And I'll say that some people are with these people because their size makes them feel better, their spouse might be obese but she looks skinny next to her massive husband. Some people have a fetish and literally fatten these people up. Others were their in-house care workers that got to know them and felt pity for them and married them. Some were there before they got big.