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Muslim girls, what would you do if your husband told you this?

I'm a Muslim guy and I lost my virginity to an escort.

I'm just living with the guilt because I was really saving that for my wedding night.

Anyway, would most Muslim girls be really angry if they found out that their husband has had sex with an escort before? What would they do as a result?

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uh5rc
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Hi

I am guy and firstly stop worrying we all make mistakes. I would try and forgive my wife but thats easier said then done. Repent to Allah swt and inshallah you should be good
Ngl I'd be disgusted. I kept my chastity would expect my future husband too. But hey that's just me.
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UWS
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Some might behead your penis so bad move
Don't worry , mistakes are made by everyone as not everyone is perfect , but the mistake and choice we make is what make us who we are now , so it's okay don't worry too much about urban ur cannot be changed it can only be out back and to move in the future:smile:
Original post by UWS
Some might behead your penis so bad move


Really , that's so sick :frown:
Original post by Anonymous
I'm a Muslim guy and I lost my virginity to an escort.

I'm just living with the guilt because I was really saving that for my wedding night.

Anyway, would most Muslim girls be really angry if they found out that their husband has had sex with an escort before? What would they do as a result?


It's probably something you should discuss before marriage. If that puts her completely off you then maybe she's not the right one for you. I wouldn't go as far as to say I would be 'disgusted' but it is something that I'd have to work through and get my head around. If the guy was someone I really liked and wanted to marry I would continue with the marriage. But I probably wouldn't consummate the marriage as soon as I was married because I wouldn't be comfortable with that straight away.
well lets just say he wont be my husband anymore
If he tells me that before we get together then I wouldn't be with him. If He tells me after we get married I would just be a bit upset , besides I'm not a virgin myself and I'm a Muslim girl
OP-move past your mistakes, repent and do good. No point worrying about the past.
To add- this threat shouldn't be a confessional platform.
Seriously people, if you're going to tell your experiences at least keep it anonymous.
Some douches on here think in corrupt ways
Original post by Anonymous
well lets just say he wont be my husband anymore


lol @ this savagery
lol so many anonymous people. Is it because you've all been doing naughty things? :colone:
Why so many people doing escorts? Isn't that illegal?
Original post by Anonymous
I'm a Muslim guy and I lost my virginity to an escort.

I'm just living with the guilt because I was really saving that for my wedding night.

Anyway, would most Muslim girls be really angry if they found out that their husband has had sex with an escort before? What would they do as a result?


I just wish I knew why you did that. I don't get it if I'm honest.

I think it was stupid, but I understand people make mistakes.

I probably would forgive you, because what is in the past is in the past. It's not like you're cheating currently or anything. I could understand the situation if you elaborated on the motivation and etc behind it. It's not just some random person from whatever settings, or even a person you knew.
Original post by Anonymous
Why so many people doing escorts? Isn't that illegal?


No, it's not illegal actually. It's a job that both men and women do and earn.
Original post by Anonymous
well lets just say he wont be my husband anymore


Are you little miss perfect? :frown:
Original post by lulucoco98
Are you little miss perfect? :frown:


no b, but if ive kept my virginity I expect my husband to do the same. accident or no accident. got a problem x
Original post by Anonymous
I just wish I knew why you did that. I don't get it if I'm honest.

I think it was stupid, but I understand people make mistakes.

I probably would forgive you, because what is in the past is in the past. It's not like you're cheating currently or anything. I could understand the situation if you elaborated on the motivation and etc behind it. It's not just some random person from whatever settings, or even a person you knew.


Because to not do it goes against human nature, and there's nothing wrong or detrimental to the health of anyone.

i.e. it goes against nature, and there's nothing wrong

Original post by Anonymous
no b, but if ive kept my virginity I expect my husband to do the same. accident or no accident. got a problem x


So if your husband was anally raped, would you divorce him? That is or would be an "accident". Your husband wouldn't have chosen to; it would have been taken from him. :wink:
Original post by Rorschach II
Because to not do it goes against human nature, and there's nothing wrong or detrimental to the health of anyone.

i.e. it goes against nature, and there's nothing wrong



So if your husband was anally raped, would you divorce him? That is or would be an "accident". Your husband wouldn't have chosen to; it would have been taken from him. :wink:


By not 'do it', I presume you mean not have sex. If so, the human race will survive if people choose to wait until marriage to have sex. I am not sure what you are referring to exactly in your second statement about there being 'nothing wrong' in regards to health. You are not being clear enough.

I think the other anon was being extreme about the accident part, but obviously no decent person would blame or divorce someone for being raped.
With HIV I don't understand why men still have sex with prostitutes. I wouldn't want to take a chance getting HIV.

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