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Why is gender equality still not a reality in 2016?

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Original post by joecphillips
It's been proven true, look at men's world records to women's world records at the olympics, look at the Williamson sisters v Kirsten braasch.

You are giving up because some people actually look at the data and realise that it shows a difference, why do you not look at the data and realise that the difference exists?


Crazy isn't it? Every single physical sport in the Olympics has men that have better records (and even just the averages), but I'm sexist probably innit?
Original post by Ano9901whichone
You asked me about a physical sport, it's guaranteed that the top male players/teams will beat top female players/teams in physical sports.
If you define better by who will win in a match between the 2, then Andy Murray is better because we will win against Serena in a match. Are you disputing this?


lol that would be brutal. A victory in "straight points"
Original post by joecphillips
It's been proven true, look at men's world records to women's world records at the olympics, look at the Williamson sisters v Kirsten braasch.

You are giving up because some people actually look at the data and realise that it shows a difference, why do you not look at the data and realise that the difference exists?


I'll reply in full later but I can assure you I am not giving up. I have looked at the facts which is more than most people on here have. Can you please actually read all of my previous posts on this thread with all the arguments I have made and all the facts I have quoted before commenting again.
I've really got to go now but seriously I'm not suggesting that men aren't physically stronger or faster. I'm not saying that men's records in sport aren't better. I'm not saying that there aren't genetic differences which cause men to have an advantage in sport. I'm saying that both male and female athletes train equally hard and have equal amounts of actual skill. That is not to do with gender.

@Ano9901whichone @joecphillips
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Original post by Sapphire321
I've really got to go now but seriously I'm not suggesting that men aren't physically stronger or faster. I'm not saying that men's records in sport aren't better. I'm not saying that there aren't genetic differences which cause men to have an advantage in sport. I'm saying that both male and female athletes train equally hard and have equal amounts of actual skill. That is not to do with gender.


Nobody is disputing the effort, people are disputing the results
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Just in case you aren't aware, OP, there are in fact laws in the UK which prohibit gender discrimination so all you need to do is bring your evidence to the police station and they will deal with it.
Original post by Sapphire321
I can't pretend to be a football fan but I really don't see any reason why female footballers have to be less skillful than male footballers. Yes, men are genetically more likely to be stronger and faster but women will need just as much actual skill when playing. Many girls and women do enjoy football but yes obviously more boys and men take an interest in it but this is again to do with children being brought up expected to follow traditional gender roles. Boys get encouraged to like football from a young age whereas girls get encouraged to like dolls, fashion etc. If young girls were given more opportunities to do football then more of them would grow up interested in it which would create more future female football players and female football fans. The girls were never given the opportunity to do football in sports lessons at my school although quite a few of us played it at break and liked it. The boys on the other hand did it at every week. You've picked the very specific example of football which had a very big gender imbalance due to many different factors. Is Serena Williams much worse at tennis than Andy Murray just because she's a woman? Looking at the many other careers outside sport, do you think that women are just worse than men at business, politics, law, science, banking etc.?

I'm not suggesting women should be forced to do science careers or subjects. I'm saying that women should be given equal opportunities to succeed at careers in science and industry if they do go into them. Women do go into these careers but they often don't have the same opportunities when competing to get the best jobs and also when trying to get promoted to higher level jobs once they do work for a company. It's a catch-22 situation as well because for example my mum works in a STEM field and although she's been successful she's faced loads of sexism and discrimination and has had to work much harder than the men she's worked with in order to succeed. Consequently, she said to me "By all means do Biochemistry at university but don't work in industry after you graduate. Do post graduate medicine or law or something so that you can work in an area with better gender equality". It is also true that girls are often not encouraged to take an interest in science in the same way that boys are. This works both ways for example I had a male friend who was forced by his parents to take science GCSEs and A Levels when he was much more interested in English etc.

What you've said about Cambridge admissions statistics isn't true. For 2014 entry, which is the most recent year that the statistics have been published for as far as I can see, 59.2% of the applicants for Natural Sciences were male and 40.8% were female. 60.3% of the students that were accepted were male and 39.7% were female. These percentages are very close to being equivalent and a similar pattern follows for all of the STEM courses. http://www.undergraduate.study.cam.ac.uk/files/publications/undergrad_admissions_statistics_2014_cycle.pdf Page 14.

Women take more sick days on average than men. Should a company be able to just hire men and discriminate against women because of that? Lets take another example, men are more likely to be peadophiles therefore were Andrea Leadsom's comments that men should not be hired to do childcare okay?

No, I haven't studied Economics but I have studied Biology, Chemistry, Physics, Maths etc. and I've read widely about this and looked up studies and research. Studying AS Level Economics doesn't make you an expert. It's not a myth; have you actually understood or considered anything I said?


I'm not going to read after you said "children being brought up expected to follow traditional gender roles. Boys get encouraged to like football from a young age whereas girls get encouraged to like dolls, fashion etc. "

I cannot believe you think this is true. I have never been forced to have an interest, you're telling me my interests are ingrained into me? How pathetic, if I was forced to play football I would've stopped ages ago but no I drive myself (plus have a job purely to fund this) spending two days a week playing football and a few other days working. But I guess I was forced and I actually hate football right? So pathetic, actually annoys me you think there are encouraged gender roles how pathetic.
I do believe in feminism and gender equality but what I don't really like is how some women (I'm not saying anyone in particular) go overboard and become what people have come to call "feminazis". This is the same situation where we blame men for beings MCPs, they feel the same way now so we are not superior in any way by doing this, we are just reinforcing the roles they have set out for us by fighting back so I say we just let things be, but treat one another equally. We're all just human beings after all.
Original post by Sapphire321
I've really got to go now but seriously I'm not suggesting that men aren't physically stronger or faster. I'm not saying that men's records in sport aren't better. I'm not saying that there aren't genetic differences which cause men to have an advantage in sport. I'm saying that both male and female athletes train equally hard and have equal amounts of actual skill. That is not to do with gender.

@Ano9901whichone @joecphillips


I'd argue that your physical abilities play a part in your level of skill - choose one.
Original post by Sapphire321
Now this is just getting ridiculous! ISIS are terrorists. Far right neo-nazi extremists are terrorists. Feminism is in no way associated with any kind of terrorism. Saying that is actually very inappropriate just now with all the actual terrorist attacks that have happened recently.

For someone with a supposedly open mind on this I would say your mind is pretty set. If you're trolling then please go and do something useful with your time instead.


I'm going to preface this by saying that clearly claiming feminist groups are as bad as the likes of Daesh is ridiculous, however a fair terrorist case could be made.

The oxford definition of terrorism is "The unlawful use of violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims".

Exhibit A: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0

Exhibit B: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvYyGTmcP80

I'd sure as hell feel intimidated if I was greeted like that every time I wanted to talk about mens issues.
Original post by Sapphire321

This would be helped if there wasn't discrimination against women particularly to do with having children. In a study, approximately 40% of managers admitted they are less inclined to hire young women who may have children or women who already have children even though this is actually illegal discrimination. This is why women are so often asked about relationships/marriage and children in job interviews. Women are also often not treated fairly if they do work at a company and then go on maternity leave. In UK society, women are generally expected to have children and if they don't they are often told they are "unnatural" or always asked why they don't. If women do have children then they are almost always expected to do the majority of the childcare and housework even when working full-time or to take part-time jobs in order to do that or even not work at all. If they don't they are often told they are bad mothers. This all prevents women from getting to top level jobs and focusing on their careers in the same way that men can. In my opinion, there should be more and better paid paternity leave so that the responsibility for a new baby can be shared between a couple. The man and the woman should do equal amounts of childcare and housework as the child grows up unless one or other of them wants to do more of course. If a women wants to do the majority of the childcare/work part-time/be a stay at home mother then that's fine; it's about having the choice rather than being expected to do it.


And society expects men to go and earn the money for the family and are seen as weak and uninteresting if they want to stay at home and raise their children. There is less in the way of paternity leave to enable this meaning that even if a man is willing to tolerate the stereotype, he remains less able to be a major part of his child's upbringing. This is obviously a problem all round, but I wouldn't say it was a point of inequality, just a point of idiocy.
Original post by Jammy Duel
Which is already the case, the leave is shared between the parents if a set of perfectly reasonable criteria are met

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**not in most cities in america or in most other countries on the planet. most men are Still getting shegged in the divorce courts and being forced to pay enormous sums of money and are prevented from ever seeing their children.

for prime examples, check out 'the fathers' rights movement' on facebook
Original post by theDanIdentity
**not in most cities in america or in most other countries on the planet. most men are Still getting shegged in the divorce courts and being forced to pay enormous sums of money and are prevented from ever seeing their children.

for prime examples, check out 'the fathers' rights movement' on facebook


Not to mention the fact that courts regularly strike out pre-nuptial agreements


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Original post by theDanIdentity
**not in most cities in america or in most other countries on the planet. most men are Still getting shegged in the divorce courts and being forced to pay enormous sums of money and are prevented from ever seeing their children.

for prime examples, check out 'the fathers' rights movement' on facebook


That's a separate matter to UK shared paternity leave and shared paternity pay.
Please can everyone just be patient and I'll try to reply to you all as soon as I can. :smile:
Original post by ComputerMaths97
I'm not going to read after you said "children being brought up expected to follow traditional gender roles. Boys get encouraged to like football from a young age whereas girls get encouraged to like dolls, fashion etc. "

I cannot believe you think this is true. I have never been forced to have an interest, you're telling me my interests are ingrained into me? How pathetic, if I was forced to play football I would've stopped ages ago but no I drive myself (plus have a job purely to fund this) spending two days a week playing football and a few other days working. But I guess I was forced and I actually hate football right? So pathetic, actually annoys me you think there are encouraged gender roles how pathetic.


Use your common sense. It is true; have you seen toy store isles.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/28/toys-kids-girls-boys-childhood-development-gender-research
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/most-toy-adverts-are-sexist-and-show-narrow-and-limiting-gender-stereotypes-study-warns-a6776746.html

I'm not saying that girls can't grow up to like football. I'm saying that boys do often get more encouragement by their parents and society in general to like it than girls do. Why is it often played in boys' school sports lessons but not in girls' school sports lessons? At my school, the boys did rugby while the girls did hockey and the boys did football while the girls did netball.

Right, you're not going to read or respond to the rest of it. How convenient that you're going to completely dodge the fact that what you said about Cambridge admissions statistics for STEM subjects was not true and ignore many other valid points. Please can you at at least be decent enough to actually read all of what I wrote. I was decent enough to read and respond to all of what you wrote even though it contained made up statements about Cambridge admissions not to mention ridiculous comments calling feminists terrorists! I think the least you can do is read and respond to what I said given I've responded to completely objectionable statements and made up rubbish from you.

No, I'm not saying that all your interests are ingrained into you; I'm saying that society encouraging children to follow traditional gender roles can have an effect on their development as has been proven in studies.

I'm not saying that you were forced to play football. Can you please actually read and make an effort to understand what I'm saying instead of always putting words in my mouth. I would also like to point out that the issue of gender equality is not just confined to football and other sports.

If anyone here is being pathetic it's you and I can assure you that I find many of the comments that you've made both incredibly annoying and completely ludicrous.
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Original post by Dheorl
I'm going to preface this by saying that clearly claiming feminist groups are as bad as the likes of Daesh is ridiculous, however a fair terrorist case could be made.

The oxford definition of terrorism is "The unlawful use of violence and intimidation, especially against civilians, in the pursuit of political aims".

Exhibit A: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iARHCxAMAO0

Exhibit B: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvYyGTmcP80

I'd sure as hell feel intimidated if I was greeted like that every time I wanted to talk about mens issues.


If feminists were classed as terrorists then you would have to class virtually all political parties and movements as terrorists. The actions of some individual supporters of a political party or movement do not make the party or movement a terrorist organisation. There was violence and intimidation by Leave supporters both during and after the referendum. Does that mean that everyone who voted Leave is a terrorist? There was violence and intimidation by supporters of the both the Yes campaign and the No campaign in the Scottish referendum. So, is everyone who supported either campaign and voted in the Scottish referendum (84.5% of Scotland) a terrorist? There has been violence and intimidation by supporters of Jeremy Corbyn so is the Labour Party a terrorist group? Theresa May is a feminist so is she a terrorist?

I don't support any form of violence or intimidation so I don't agree with any supporters of any political party or movement being violent. I believe in free speech and I would never behave that way. Unfortunately, some supporters of feminism, just as some supporters of almost all other political parties and movements, do behave in a violent or intimidating way but I would never support their actions. I don't think people should behave like that under any circumstances. I also would like to say again that I do care about men's issues just as much as women's issues.
Original post by Dheorl
And society expects men to go and earn the money for the family and are seen as weak and uninteresting if they want to stay at home and raise their children. There is less in the way of paternity leave to enable this meaning that even if a man is willing to tolerate the stereotype, he remains less able to be a major part of his child's upbringing. This is obviously a problem all round, but I wouldn't say it was a point of inequality, just a point of idiocy.


I know and I don't agree with that either. I would support the introduction of more and better paid paternity leave in order to stop that happening just as you've said. If you look through my previous posts on this thread I've already said that several times in response to other people. I believe that both men and women should be given a completely free choice without stereotypes. :smile:
Original post by IronicalMan
What's wrong with escorts, you should support them as a Feminist. Also I have something you could agree with, as a fascisti, Mass free childcare, Ie nursery type things provided by the state. Also, free holidays, free activity groups, fitness and health of the nation ect.


I should support the exploitation of women as a feminist? Well, sorry to disappoint you but I definitely don't. Agreeing with having free childcare doesn't mean you support fascism.
Original post by IronicalMan
I stopped revising, naa dw, I get enough of that off my parents but tbh, as wrong as it sounds I don't really care lol. My dads an alcoholic and so was his dad etc...
But women, are maternal, they have more bond with the baby etc and know what to do(and usually want to spend time with their baby etc)
Men aren't as sensitive etc, and tbh I'd have no idea how to look after a baby, it took my father a few goes lmao. It all depends if most want to, you earn less money and the mother would usually prefer it in my opinion. I'd say men do quite a bit of housework in my experience, I mean my great grandfather did nothing and he had 12 children...lol. But all the men in my family that have children do(those that don't have no gf/wife so they do it all obvs), my dad even looks after my baby brother and little brother(I don't live with them) however, that's mainly due to him not being at work or if his gf is at work. I wouldn't have a problem doing housework/cleaning or cooking, actually I'd just higher a cleaner LMAO. Cooking is bad, when you can just drink beer which is far easier lmao,unless someone depended upon me. But another point, feminism leads to less time cooking, so kids get *****er meals for example as parents don't have time.
But for business's there's no incentive, men and women are just as good at doing a job, that's why they pick the man usually. Unless it's a really valued employer/friend.


Well at least you weren't revising while drunk then haha. I don't think that would have been very productive. Are you at uni? You really should care and if your dad and granddad are alcoholics then it's even more important for you to be careful not to drink too much. Surely you don't want to end up being an alcoholic as well? Please, please, please be careful and safe. Honestly, you will have a much better life if you don't keep drinking like that. :hugs:

Having a career doesn't mean that women can't be good mothers and still spend time with their baby or child though. Okay, you'd have no idea what to do with a baby but do you think all women have universal knowledge on how to look after babies? Both women and men have to learn. Many men are very good with babies and children. It's wrong to assume that all or most women would automatically prefer to earn less money and do most of the childcare and housework. That is simply not true. Fair enough if all of your male relatives do some of the housework but unfortunately this is not always the case. In the average British couple, the woman does 14 hours of housework a week and the man does 6 hours. Women still do the majority even when both parents are working full-time. Learn to cook and clean then. If you earn a huge salary in the future then hire a cleaner if you want but you might not be able to afford it. If you can't cook buy healthy ready meals, don't just drink instead. Please think of your future and your health. I know I don't actually know you but please trust me on this. What I am saying is very good advice.

Kids could get worse meals... Or *radical idea* men could do some of the cooking as well. The woman and the man in a couple could take it in turns if they both have full-time jobs.

In your own words "men and women are just as good at doing a job". If a company just hires a man because a woman is a woman then that is illegal discrimination.

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