Why is it so impossible for me to just ****ing make friends ffs its not fair i feel

But when I do make effort I either get ignored or the convo becomes boring.

I dont understand, I am a cool talkative guy but I dont have no friend group, I have noone who will think "lets invite him", "ill say hello"

Its not fair, its so demotivating, i hate it all, i feel like hating everyone and even hating myself. I dont understand I thougjt maybe im not putting enough effort.

But when I do make effort I either get ignored or the convo becomes boring.

I have been inside most of summer **** my life. Ik that friends arent essential but its the holiday FFS. Its so ****ing depressing when I see everyone in snapchat having fun with each other and I am just here like.

Never been invited to a party,rarely speak to girls lol,no talents,socially awkward,socially retarded,no ambitions (i have no passions). No social life but still get below average grades

I try not to give up, I wonder where am I going wrong? Maybe Ill get it right tomorrow

Needed to vent sorry :;(. This is like my 5th thread lol

Try get outside your comfort and arrange plans

You go the gym?any sports you play? Uni? College? Join societies? All common suggestions but you've not said what you do etc etc

I posted this on another thread. www.meetup.com many people your age meet up go clubbing, cinema and so on

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It's sad that I can relate to some of the stuff you've mentioned *sigh*

Have you tried finding a hobby to get into? Or maybe get a job? It's a good way of being around more people and possibly making friends.

So what you are saying is that either they find you boring, or you find them boring?

To make good friends, you need to find people you share a common interest with. So join a club or organisation or society. Friendship is a long game so keep cool and let things happen over a long period of time. Making true friends is not like accepting a Facebook friend request.

Good luck!

I go gym I have been going nearly.everyday since summer started

I am in 6th form, my 6th form is closed for summer. There are no clubs at all in my.local area for people my age.

I dont want to meet up with random strangers I would love to do stuff with the people I know in my 6th form. Unfortunatly altough I speak to 80-100 people in my 6th form noone seems to give a **** about me

I dont understand, I am a cool talkative guy but I dont have no friend group, I have noone who will think "lets invite him", "ill say hello"

Its not fair, its so demotivating, i hate it all, i feel like hating everyone and even hating myself. I dont understand I thougjt maybe im not putting enough effort.

But when I do make effort I either get ignored or the convo becomes boring.

I have been inside most of summer **** my life. Ik that friends arent essential but its the holiday FFS. Its so ****ing depressing when I see everyone in snapchat having fun with each other and I am just here like.

Never been invited to a party,rarely speak to girls lol,no talents,socially awkward,socially retarded,no ambitions (i have no passions). No social life but still get below average grades

I try not to give up, I wonder where am I going wrong? Maybe Ill get it right tomorrow

Needed to vent sorry :;(. This is like my 5th thread lol

Well unless you posseses them to control them using vodoo, it's unlikely they'll want to suddenly start chatting to you, as they haven't upto now.....you're being selective. Don't want to meet new people yet complain those that you know don't want to do
Anything...

Why do they not include you? Are you antisocial? Do you play games? Sports? Go clubbing? Who do you talk to most in your class? Do you make the effort to arrange anything? You ask for their whatsapp? Snapchat?

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My hobbys are going to the gym and video games and football.

Gym- i prefer to go gym alone
Video games- i play on PC, dont have a ps4
Football- have no friends to play football with?
Also stuff I would like to go cinema,roam explore, do stuff but I have noone. Despite being talkative

Do you possibly change your personality when your with someone else? I understand people are shy and nervous at times when they meet someone new but some people change their personality completely in order to fit in a crowd. In sixth form I would get nervous talking to someone new and be quiet at first but after a few times I hanged out with them I would be the loudest and annoying person they knew and just like that I had a group of friends. Just be yourself (don't be a douche bag) and you will naturally form a group without even knowing it.

My hobbys are going to the gym and video games and football.

Gym- i prefer to go gym alone
Video games- i play on PC, dont have a ps4
Football- have no friends to play football with?
Also stuff I would like to go cinema,roam explore, do stuff but I have noone. Despite being talkative

My hobbys are going to the gym and video games and football.

Gym- i prefer to go gym alone
Video games- i play on PC, dont have a ps4
Football- have no friends to play football with?
Also stuff I would like to go cinema,roam explore, do stuff but I have noone. Despite being talkative

I play on PC, too.

It may not necessarily be what you were hoping for as we won't meet in real life, but if you'd like, I'd more than happily join you on some games and we can talk via skype, teamspeak, etc, if that'd help?

It's not going outside, but surely it's better than nothing.
Let me know if you'd be up for it.

You can still have fun on your own. Even though I do have friends I spent the last few weeks staying at home and doing stuff I enjoy.

All I can say is try asking people if they want to hang out (even though it isn't easy) and to keep yourself busy by working or doing volunteering which is what I'm doing.

If you have siblings you can ask them to do stuff with you