I'm a girl and I enjoy sending nudes and sexting, but is this normal???

She can do what she wants, we don't have to like it.

No. Just no. There are far too many stories of this sort of thing around. I sent one to my friend.. it got passed around the whole school. I sent one to my friend it hit the internet... in fact there are people who've been arrested and put on the Child sex offenders list, because they made 'child abuse pornographic material' that is assuming OP is under the age of 18, which I'm assuming they may be.Yes it is just as illegal to make it as it is to own or share it if you are under the age of 18. If you're over the age of 18 though it could still destroy your life. If she really feels she has to expose herself, invite the boys round, that way there's nothing wrong, no evidence etc. But doing it digitally is so risky and dong it for long enough you eventually get caught out. Yes, she can 'do what she wants' but it may just end up ruining her life. There's nothing wrong with wanting to show off your body, but doing it through digital media is so dangerous it's just not worth it.

I don't get why all you people are saying 'there's nothing wrong with it'. There is there will always be insecurity in any digital application and when you're sending it to another person, it becomes even less safe. Can you imagine if you sent one of these to your parents by accident?

It's dirty and she should not be doing it if we lived in a society with morals, I'm disagreeing with people who say it's fine even though I know we can't do anything to stop her.

If she's under 18 she may even be committing a criminal act if she's making pictures of herself, but I can't go over there and take the phone from her until she learns to behave.

Many employers will google you before interviewing and some even use private companies to look into you. If your nudes have been spread around on the internet they will come up and will disqualify you.

Ok ngl I have a pretty hot bod and I'm fairly good looking, lately I've taken to sending nudes and sexting a couple of male friends late at night, and I really enjoy it. This is on SC and I trust them both not to screenshot.
However, it has made them both literally obsessed with me. They have both said that its ruining their lives as all they can concerntrate on in the day is having sex with me. Is this normal?

For professional roles they will want to know your qualifications, criminal record, credit score, history of bankruptcy and any civic law suits which may have been taken against you, not your sexual history. Your boss isn't some sort of morality police who works on behalf of the Catholic Church to ensure moral decency at all times.


Don't get me wrong, if you're going for a conservative client based role, you type your name into the search and 7 pages of weird porn you did at university comes up, you might want to contact Google and ask them to take the links down. In the real world, you get top lawyers who once worked as pole dancers to pay their way through university, George Osborne apparently snorted coke and banged prostitutes in his student days. It's only on TSR you get naive kids who think that you have to sanitise every human aspect of who you are if you want to get anywhere in life.

I don't think George Osborne's experiences will hold true for OP looool

What is your point?

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I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy and sending nude is like a chore to me!

Perhaps not, but a boss who is obsessed with the sex lives of his employees is a probably some sort of repressed pervert, rather than someone you actually want to work for. Can you really imagine a top businessman saying, ''I was going to work with you, but someone once saw your boobs so nah''?

No, this is NOT normal. Typically girls are very demure and only think about sex in the context of a loving relationship and about wanting to arrive at being the the finest of nurturing mothers.

I don't understand how any guy would know exactly whats going on in the mind of a girl? There are plenty of girls that think of sex probably more than any guy I know but just hide it because of immature guys perpetuating this nice girl bs. I think it's completely normal for a girl to express their own sexuality and it should be encouraged. Not labeled as 'slutty', what is wrong with the guys on this thread?

My point is that that everything the quoted person said, was nonsense. It is not disgusting to call out disgusting behaviour. Sluttiness is not a good thing.

encouraged? Why