How do people manage to go on so many dates?

I agree with this Still searching myself

I agree yet again

Awwwhhh same here! May I ask how old you are, if you don't mind? I'm 15, so like even though theirs girls and boys out there that are in relationships, it's not that bad, but I do feel like it's not going to happen ever. But oh well.

You need to cut the crap and realise that an attitude like that is not doing you any favours. Take advice with a pinch of salt, but if you can't take constructive criticism, than have a nice day.

I'm 20 and I've only ever had 1 proper relationship so far. That was last year - was long distance and we met through this site actually. I understand You've got plenty of time (people tell me this when I worry about this too ). I really don't think it'll never happen Believe me, if someone had told me that I would have my first relationship at the start of last year, I wouldn't of believed them These things are unexpected in my experience - well, what little experience I've had so far Don't lose hope, you will find someone

Oh cool! You've still got your life ahead of you! That's cool! Awwwhhh thank youu! & I hope so Haha, don't worry you'll be adding many more experiences to that one, when people start getting to know you properly, your really lovely! Thank you so much!

Oh cool! You've still got your life ahead of you! That's cool! Awwwhhh thank youu! & I hope so Haha, don't worry you'll be adding many more experiences to that one, when people start getting to know you properly, your really lovely! Thank you so much!

*You can PM me about this if you want. I'm quite enjoying the conversation tbh

Alright perhaps I'm being too harsh here, My apologies.

Do you lead things forward, or do you find yourself talking about topics besides the actual date? It could be the fact that you are not leading things forward and instead are taking a passive role which isn't a good approach.

Due to the fact that I don't know what kind of content you actually talk about I don't know what tone you might portray yourself in. You might be saying something hurtful or downplaying yourself to them. It could be the fact that you are being over confident.

All I'm saying is that if you don't make yourself known, like actively going up to girls and striking conversations than you will be invisible.

Have you ever heard anyone say anything about you behind your back, or any rumors flying around about you?

You need to talk to more girls in general, not even for dates or anything..

I dont think its an achievement to have been on tons and tons of dates. Have you ever seen first dates?
You'll see a pattern of behaviour where people sift through so many dates because they expect to find some kind of "spark", "click" or "connection" within an hour of talking to someone, when in reality, things take so much more time. So when things dont go perfectly, people give up too soon. People expect too much too soon, and so it isnt necessary to go on loads of dates with loads of people- lets slow things down.