Was I raped ??

Hi,

You got raped. It is tragic for you to have been raped by your boyfriend. Your subsequent conversation with him shows that he did not acknowledge the act nor did he have any remorse.

Please try to get some professional help and community support. I also think that you should track the guy down and report him to the police. He may be treating another innocent young woman like that and potentially ruining her life.

Please stop him before he destroys more lives. All the best.

i am now yea
i dont really tend to dwell on it but i dont mind talking about it cuz im happy in my life now

I have to agree and say no charge will be made, I was in the same situation around 3 years ago. I contacted police 6 months after the incident and after 6 months of trying to collect information, due to lack of physical evidence, they found that messages had been tampered with yet could not be used in court due to his friends word against mine. Given my personal experience I doubt a charge can be passed.

Thank You so much.

It's nice that know that there are still good guys out there.

I believe in karma even if his never prosecuted for what he did to me, karma will find him in this lifetime or the next for sure.
After seeing him last week although it was a huge surprise and shock as I never want to see that face again as long as I'm on this earth.I've realised that his such a waste of space and not worth my time or energy I don't even have the energy to hate him anymore. His caused so much pain and so much misery to my life for far to long and no more.

I will try to find some local organisation that offer free counselling

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There's no reason to write off reporting. Even if the samples and photos were destroyed, the notes kept by the Haven will state that you were there. Data protection requires that records are kept for a number of years and most institutions will keep records longer than the minimum for things like abuse to factor in for delayed reporting.

I would really recommend seeking specialist counselling.

Its ok, just trying to help out!

I like to think im good! I just wanna be given a chance now. I want to make my future gf the happiest girl in the world and ill do anything to make sure thats the case!

Oh yes karma will absolutely get him back at somepoint in life! Hopefully it will mess his life up!
Yeah i can imagine it was, all i can say is youve just got to try and forget about that part (easier said than done i know) but just think of happy thoughts!
He is a massive waste of space and doesnt deserve to be on this earth! Yes exactly! You deserve much much better than him! He'll end up with a disatrous life, whereas youll go on and have a highly succesful life!
Yes just forget about him and hopefully the therapy will help you to get back on track!

Good to hear it! Hopefully youll find someone great!
I sincerely hope you can overcome this! I feel so sick that the guy did what he did! Just disgusting!
I honestly wish i could help you! X

Thank You for your kind words.

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